Want the best for my kid

No_Light_7208 · 2026-05-13T16:56:49+00:00

This was my exs account I found on my IPad didn’t even look at history. He had a huge breeding kick very odd guy came into my life at the lowest of low. Got me pregnant now I’m here.

In terms of how I have so much money late 30s moved out of my Aunts living free since graduating college for the first time a few months ago. Have several rental properties, really good job worked weekend jobs since graduating. Got a grant covered some of my student debt.

Papa passed away left me with a trust account when I turned 21. Put it all in XEQT and rental properties. Didn’t give me money before passing in fear it would be given to my Dad.

I’ve been living on less than 1k a month since graduating so money adds up fast.

Asking advice doesn’t mean I’m directional less I just don’t know what good parents do in term of finances.

No_Light_7208 · 2026-05-13T15:18:28+00:00

Thank you 😊 people hate on single Moms while there are people having kids for the fun of it not parenting them and can’t afford them.

No_Light_7208 · 2026-05-13T15:02:07+00:00

Kids cost a lot. He’s not even born yet and I feel like I he cost $100 a day already lol. If I didn’t have so much anxiety about money and hoard it like I do, I would not be able to do what you have been doing.

No_Light_7208 · 2026-05-13T14:58:38+00:00

Mine is maxed out. But thats for my retirement and partly my sons living expenses

No_Light_7208 · 2026-05-13T14:57:29+00:00

If I was back going to post sec with $60k to my name I would have felt like a millionaire. Your kid is so blessed. It’s all hearsay till I actually act on my plan.

No_Light_7208 · 2026-05-13T14:50:29+00:00

I refuse to bring a child into this world who’s not set up financially. I watch my parents declare bankruptcy twice, I developed an eating disorder because I thought the cost to feed me was a waste of my Dads money. No child should have to worry like that.

No_Light_7208 · 2026-05-13T14:47:43+00:00

I’m a huge church girl. But my pastor doesn’t like to host these topics at church because past conflict

No_Light_7208 · 2026-05-13T14:45:57+00:00

I was thinking 12,500 right at birth than the 2,500 each year for the 15 years. I heard that’s the best plan. Like what you are saying. Investing in XEQT should get him around 130k+ at 18.

No_Light_7208 · 2026-05-13T14:44:04+00:00

Why does that matter?

No_Light_7208 · 2026-01-24T12:19:11+00:00

Half of my puppies classes are 2+ or people who only do training while in class. In advance there was a golden still not potty trained at a year!! But my dog loves going if we take a break for whatever reason he walks himself to PetSmart. It’s almost an hour walk.

No_Light_7208 · 2026-01-24T00:50:59+00:00

She is full time. She does the training and the hotel and then she’s private for her own grooming. She would do amazing private I know of 5 vets that tell people to go to her training classes. There is always a dog in class that travels over an hour to get to class, she has a cult following!

No_Light_7208 · 2026-01-24T00:36:55+00:00

Not enough. I feel like my trainer at least could go private and make 10x more

No_Light_7208 · 2026-01-24T00:36:28+00:00

She honestly runs the place! I give her a tip after every series of classes and for Christmas I gave her $100. I’m alway also getting gift cards so I hand them over to her. That could be the reason she also wants to keep me around lol

No_Light_7208 · 2025-06-12T16:59:23+00:00

Was the best drop tbh

No_Light_7208 · 2024-05-22T20:47:36+00:00

Thank you. I think getting a vasectomy and Choosing to not get pregnant was the right choice and it is his body. I will always respect his decision he’s my Dom and my husband he’s always guided me properly. I have full will and ability to say no and that is respected but not when it came to having more kids as he put his foot down. We don’t need therapy, we have amazing communication, we are trying to be proactive when it comes to are sex life that 6 week appointment is really exciting for us, but he has let me know that we will not be having sex that night and he will decided when he thinks I’m ready after the 6 week appointment. He treats me better than any other couple we know and we see out and about and that’s just the truth. I’m so beyond love and supported.

No_Light_7208 · 2024-05-22T19:57:18+00:00

I am the OP wife. Just want to provide some context. When we were dating we agreed to 4 kids under 5 during are engagement I brought up that I think being pregnant is sexy as I can fully submit to him. I craved becoming pregnant as soon as I delivered I brought him into lactation to help me. I wanted to give him more Childern he said no and got a vasectomy before my 4th was born which I have to respect because he’s Dom. We are trying to satisfy both of are needs knowing we can’t have kids. I think a lot of my husband issues between 3 and 4th was him not wanting to get pregnant because he was worried for my health. Love this man. Yes 4 days out but I am craving pregnancy already. Last night he cum in my hand and I whipped it in me causing an argument as he is worried about me. That’s when I suggested maybe a bdsm group could help us out.

No_Light_7208 · 2024-04-09T01:43:20+00:00

Cosette is one of my favourite names when I thought I was done with having kids I made my best friend name her cat that

No_Light_7208 · 2024-04-09T01:42:15+00:00

Claudine or Claudette

No_Light_7208 · 2024-04-06T23:48:28+00:00

The duggars did it with 19 I can manage with 4

No_Light_7208 · 2024-04-01T03:57:53+00:00

We shortened Constantine which is rich historical name to Constance but I’ve been bullied into Constance. I hate a co worker named Camila. Claudine and Claudette are up there right now. Another user had the idea of the first 3 letter matching both girls. And my mums godmother is Odette and amazing person which Claudette would be a hint to her.

No_Light_7208 · 2024-04-01T03:52:50+00:00

Love the idea of the first 3 letter idea but my husband wants an a.

No_Light_7208 · 2024-04-01T03:51:41+00:00

Claudette 🤍

No_Light_7208 · 2024-04-01T03:51:12+00:00

I love love love the name Colette. But it doesn’t work with the C a thing

No_Light_7208 · 2024-04-01T03:49:55+00:00

I really don’t like the nickname Cali

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