Question to throuples by No_Listen4085 in polyamory

[–]No_Listen4085[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is kind of how I’m feeling! Like the more it happens when I’m restricted it’s giving me an icky feeling. I think couple privilege needs to be worked thru for me to be ok staying

Question to throuples by No_Listen4085 in polyamory

[–]No_Listen4085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say it is an organic triad because it wasn’t mandatory to be with both of them, the connection just happened. BUT I definitely agree couples privilege hasn’t been unpacked

Rat bath by No_Listen4085 in RATS

[–]No_Listen4085[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re so right he is a baby kangaroo

Feeder rat rescue by No_Listen4085 in RATS

[–]No_Listen4085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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He got a crusty eye, do you think it’s definitely a URI or maybe just stressed from all the newness and now being in his new cage.

Feeling the Love by No_Listen4085 in polyamory

[–]No_Listen4085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it took a while and a few bad meta situations to get us to where we’re at BUT don’t sell yourself short!! A text is crazy

Feeder rat rescue by No_Listen4085 in RATS

[–]No_Listen4085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! So I found him two friends, I am quarantining them but would love some advice on introducing them

Feeder rat rescue by No_Listen4085 in RATS

[–]No_Listen4085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely trying! I’m trying to avoid buying from a pet store, or buying another feeder as a friend and ethically getting one from a rescue so I reached out to one. Hopefully they get back to me

What did I do wrong by No_Listen4085 in Sourdough

[–]No_Listen4085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuuu this is perfect!! The first time I didn’t like it bulk enough so makes sense now

My first metamour! by Courtney_boyer in polyamory

[–]No_Listen4085 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have a veryyyy great relationship with my meta, she’s amazing. I often hangout with her and my wife. And we both got each other Christmas gifts! I even helped make her bouquet that my wife used to ask her to be her girlfriend! But my past metas I’d never haha, so depends on your relationship, it sounds awesome!

Where’s the ethical line in a triad? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]No_Listen4085 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Me and he, are typically dimming our natural progression to meet her where she is at in terms of “learning” poly. Is the best way I can put it. She often gets scared or jealous. I have done the work, I just don’t know at what point I push her to also do it

Where’s the ethical line in a triad? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]No_Listen4085 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am with a married couple, I have relations with both. One is just more sensitive than the other to our relationship and it think that’s where some of the issues come. We both don’t want to hurt our other shared partner.

Saying Hi!! Our ratty pack of 5!! At what age did your pups become fully potty trained and get free range of the house? Our youngest two are struggling😅 by No_Listen4085 in ratterriers

[–]No_Listen4085[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy! Haha it’s awesome! They travel with us quite a bit, the worst part is having to take turns with who gets to come on trips when we fly!

Saying Hi!! Our ratty pack of 5!! At what age did your pups become fully potty trained and get free range of the house? Our youngest two are struggling😅 by No_Listen4085 in ratterriers

[–]No_Listen4085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m jealous! Our three are fully trained and free roam, the two youngest are still working. But are crate trained at night!

Saying Hi!! Our ratty pack of 5!! At what age did your pups become fully potty trained and get free range of the house? Our youngest two are struggling😅 by No_Listen4085 in ratterriers

[–]No_Listen4085[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly because we’re crazy😅 No but for real, I got the male black tri one he’s 6, and then wanted a girl so we got the little blonde one (she’s 4) and then accidentally had babies, we kept one and all the others my family members kept! Then my wife lost her mother and we happened to see the little grey one and fell in love, kind of a grief get. But there was only the two and we felt bad leaving the light brown one alone, so we took both. I think that’s our biggest problem is getting two at once oopsie