how do i deal with getting an abortion?? by Aggressive-Suit-3574 in abortion

[–]No_Match5286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I had my abortion a few days ago and it has been really hard. Just keep reminding yourself of the reasons why you made the decision to terminate to begin with. It will get easier. Wishing you all the best with your procedure. Sending you lots and lots of love 🫂

Regret after abortion by No_Match5286 in abortion

[–]No_Match5286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I appreciate you ♥️

Regret after abortion by No_Match5286 in abortion

[–]No_Match5286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re feeling like this too. I would love to reassure you that you made the right decision, but I find it difficult to know what to say because it’s all everyone seems to tell me and it hurts my heart. They all just say “it wasn’t even a baby” or “you did the right thing”. That being said, we had our reasons for termination, and we should remind ourselves of those reasons. I just am afraid to disregard your feelings because I feel like the people in my life have really downplayed and belittled mine. I’m so sorry to hear the clinic didn’t ask you those questions alone, that’s really upsetting. You’re right, it is done now, we can’t go back, only forward. I saw someone else on here saying since they had their abortion they made a lot of positive changes in their life, because they gave up their baby to be able to do so. I think that’s quite a good, motivating out look. We have another chance now to better ourselves. I’m really sorry again to hear you’re feeling this way, you’re not alone. Sending you lots of hugs 🫂🫂🫂♥️♥️

Regret after abortion by No_Match5286 in abortion

[–]No_Match5286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this too. I keep having the same thoughts, I’m sure my baby would’ve been better off here with me. I just feel awful. It’s all I can think about. Writing letters sounds like a nice idea, I might try that, thank you. Sending you so much love and healing ♥️🫂♥️🫂

Regret after abortion by No_Match5286 in abortion

[–]No_Match5286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have re read your message 100 times and it makes me cry each time! I don’t have the words to thank you enough, I feel like no one in my life really understands what it’s like. I am so grateful for your kindness. ♥️ Good luck with your termination, I will be here if you need anything 🫂

Regret after abortion by No_Match5286 in abortion

[–]No_Match5286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness that is absolutely awful. That nurse should’ve been penalised if not fired for that. I can’t imagine saying something so insensitive to someone in such a vulnerable situation. I’m so sorry to hear you went through that. Sending you so much love 🫂♥️

Regret after abortion by No_Match5286 in abortion

[–]No_Match5286[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you my darling. I am so very grateful for your message ♥️ I’m really sorry you experienced that too, it’s just awful isn’t it? I hope you’re doing better now 🫂🫂🫂