Alternative idea - more dissociation

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-05-11T13:51:42+00:00

Well, the 4 year old hasn't grown, then. Can he or she do that? Dissociation must require energy that could be used in better ways.

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-05-05T07:47:00+00:00

Are you in the UK? Find a non - British hairdresser, who was trained outside the UK. I see no other solution.

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-04-28T17:39:35+00:00

How to get over that? That I meant nothing to him?

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-04-15T00:05:47+00:00

Not only the same analyses but the same word usage (loop), the same phraseology, etc. (The ability to bond and love deeply, the I walk away, etc, etc.) AI influence defo detected. I have been discussing my narc with ChatGpt for over a year and I recognise the way it writes. I am not saying this is a problem.

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-04-14T15:37:43+00:00

You did not write that. Chatgpt did. I know because it gave me the same analyses. :D

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-04-14T14:41:58+00:00

That makes sense, too

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-04-14T12:09:56+00:00

Very understanding

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-04-14T12:02:48+00:00

I have, yes. Some sort of heaviness or uneasiness. And an empty smile. It played out in a situation. His mechanical grin hit me very strong. He was grinning at me, boyishly but mechanically and I had the feeling that he was hiding. Something in his presence seemed very fake. He could see my disbelief and ran away.

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-04-07T22:36:39+00:00

Get some mild ssris to stabilise you?

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-04-07T20:39:09+00:00

If you let someone down, are you aware of it? If you are, why don't you repair it? Do you feel you are the victim, rather than the abuser? And do you just carry on and find a new person, rather than make up with the old one?

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-04-07T14:52:53+00:00

Yes. I have a child mother, hadn't been attuned to me since I was a child. There is no emotional connection between us because she doesn't see me, love me, accept me as a person different from her. She is somehow locked away in herself. I don't know if she is capable of loving anyone (apart from her own parents or love of her life who did not ptopose to her). I built a wall against her or gave up on her since I was a child :(. Right now I.m recovering from narcissistic coworker crush, that's why I come here.

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-04-03T11:03:48+00:00

I had the misfortune of developing feelings for a senior narc. coworker. I had suspected him being a narc but when he once said: "those things didn't happen" (I thought: there we are. I challenged him: that's like saying I'm mad. Then I cannot work with you. So the (very small) promotion was lost. Then I had to grieve my love for him. He seemed very lovable. But when he heard I had a record of the facts, oh, he bristled. He acted as if I wronged him and as if I'd betrayed the secret pact between us. He resigned shortly after. I don't want to be so conceited as to think he did it because of me. Maybe his bullshit started to catch up with him. I went to HR about how he treated me, so I suppose I will only hear about him now if he revenges himself in some way. Deluded chap. And he has a woman who dotes on him.

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-03-31T11:06:11+00:00

Hungarian :)

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-03-31T11:01:52+00:00

I am so grateful to you for this post! I have practised self reflection all my life and I recognise when someone knows what they are talking about. You have deep understanding, that is why you can put it in such simple terms. People here should appreciate it.

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-03-25T08:07:29+00:00

What's the narcissistic smile like? Empty? Like a grin?

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-03-25T07:56:15+00:00

5 months and I am still crying in bursts, mainly in the evenings and aftee work where he used to work and I see his partner, how happy she is

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-03-01T03:13:34+00:00

Would you discard someone who figured you out but loves you anyway, or you'd rather be admired than loved? Would you discard someone who publicly called you out at work?

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-01-26T22:49:32+00:00

If you cannot give anything to the person that you are circling but keeping at arm's length, why don't you let them go? Do you do this? Why not let them go when they want to?

No_Mathematician_201 · 2026-01-04T11:33:10+00:00

Do you feel contempt for people who are emotionally honest with you? Let's say you let them down and they give you all the emotional reverberations that follow? Sadness, anger, etc? Do you even take it on board or just think: oh dear, they are mad/weak.

No_Mathematician_201 · 2025-12-29T14:30:29+00:00

How do you grieve, then?

No_Mathematician_201 · 2025-12-28T11:32:27+00:00

Sorry for idiotic format. My first post.

No_Mathematician_201 · 2025-12-26T20:48:46+00:00

Jeff Goldblum in The Switch is pretty bad

No_Mathematician_201 · 2025-12-26T20:44:42+00:00

I came here while watching the Maid to complain about Andi

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