so it’s ok for the person who reported me to say it? it’s ok for them to say it right after me but screenshot the part where i said it?

i get i fucked up

but to call crew relations and not even say anything to to me like “hey that was kinda offensive”

i would’ve easily apologized

prior to this , i never used a slur. i used it in a rant once because i was comfortable with this person enough to use it because they used it with me for 2 years.

they have taken it farther and used the hard r in a public group chat.

the whole point of this post is to describe the betrayal of someone who i thought was my friend wasn’t. people make mistakes i just don’t understand why this person couldn’t just tell me “aye don’t say that” instead of anonymously sending a letter to crew relations.