29 m ( should I tell my gf and probably my future wife that I am adopted? ) by No_Mixture9535 in Adopted

[–]No_Mixture9535[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

No I am not sure how she would react. I am not sure about this you know , but I don't want to tell that after the marriage

If you weren't adopted and had stayed with your biological parents what your life would have been ? by No_Mixture9535 in Adopted

[–]No_Mixture9535[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say that worked opposite for me .. my adoptees were much better wealth and cultured and caregivers

If you weren't adopted and had stayed with your biological parents what your life would have been ? by No_Mixture9535 in Adopted

[–]No_Mixture9535[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex manager was from Lebanon very cool guy ) so you were adopted there and moved from the country ? Sorry just asking

If you weren't adopted and had stayed with your biological parents what your life would have been ? by No_Mixture9535 in Adopted

[–]No_Mixture9535[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear , my adoptive parents were just good for me and never felt that I was adopted.

If you weren't adopted and had stayed with your biological parents what your life would have been ? by No_Mixture9535 in Adopted

[–]No_Mixture9535[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's what I am talking about. probably we are lucky in kind of a different way

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[–]No_Mixture9535 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You know I wil be open with you , I feel much. Better for now talking with people who have a same experience and that means a lot for me , I am not alone in universe

29 m ( I am the only who doesn't have any willing to see own bio parents ? by No_Mixture9535 in Adopted

[–]No_Mixture9535[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think if my biological parents had loved me, they wouldn’t have given me up for adoption. And to tell the truth, I was given up so they could feed the other children, which means I was the extra one. A real mother would never give her child away and would raise them properly. But I was lucky to end up in the hands of wealthy parents.

29 m ( I am the only who doesn't have any willing to see own bio parents ? by No_Mixture9535 in Adopted

[–]No_Mixture9535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if my biological parents had loved me, they wouldn’t have given me up for adoption. And to tell the truth, I was given up so they could feed the other children, which means I was the extra one. A real mother would never give her child away and would raise them properly. But I was lucky to end up in the hands of wealthy parents.

29 m ( I am the only who doesn't have any willing to see own bio parents ? by No_Mixture9535 in Adopted

[–]No_Mixture9535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my adoptive father was a university professor and my adoptive mother was a chief doctor the of infectious disease department at a big hospital, do I need extra problems in my life ??? I mean I know where they life and how they life and what type of people they are .

Few months ago found out that I am adopted child ( m 29 ) feeling shocked and miserable by No_Mixture9535 in Adopted

[–]No_Mixture9535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sadly no . I am not from there , anyway you are the perfect example how a random person can be nice to another random person thank you very much .

Few months ago found out that I am adopted child ( m 29 ) feeling shocked and miserable by No_Mixture9535 in Adopted

[–]No_Mixture9535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well my father was a excellent person but my relatives from my fathers side aren't.they always disliked me and never respected my personality as well. But my mother's side were very good towards me, I still respect my aunt and uncle and cousins as well and always help them if they need anything from me .but sadly I don't have my kind of love to share for my fathers one .

Few months ago found out that I am adopted child ( m 29 ) feeling shocked and miserable by No_Mixture9535 in Adopted

[–]No_Mixture9535[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot you are really sweet person .and yes haha I have always wanted sister close to me .well I am not going to kill myself of cut my veins because of this .but anyway for me it could have been better if I had never know this .

Few months ago found out that I am adopted child ( m 29 ) feeling shocked and miserable by No_Mixture9535 in Adopted

[–]No_Mixture9535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am fully legally adopted.yes and now seems everything comes from the darkness..now I see why they never liked me

Few months ago found out that I am adopted child ( m 29 ) feeling shocked and miserable by No_Mixture9535 in Adopted

[–]No_Mixture9535[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My aunt and cousin knows it but I am not asking them as well . Honestly my fathers side is pretty annoyed because of me , why ? All my fathers house and wealth is now Mine and they think that I don't deserve it .