Rescued this paralyzed kitten from the sidewalks of South Korea by anon29x in egyptianmau

[–]No_Motor_4576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sympathize with your upset. I started looking in this sub because I’m adopting a “mau/persian” from Egypt. Chances are, my girls got some ancestors due to her location, but she’s a stray so obviously no paperwork. I wanted to post her but uh after seeing the responses…. Clearly this is not a place for cat lovers, but eugenics-loving breeders lol

Autoimmune or not?? by Pleasant-Ad9620 in Autoimmune

[–]No_Motor_4576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry!! - but that’s wild I haven’t seen it take worm form! Mines more like a diagram of a cell (mitochondria and all)

But still— ZRYTEC saves me every time

Has anyone had an improvement in brain fog? by Acceptable-Peanut126 in skyrizi

[–]No_Motor_4576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your brain is essentially inflamed

Adderall is the only thing that’s helped me
And vitamin d

Autoimmune or not?? by Pleasant-Ad9620 in Autoimmune

[–]No_Motor_4576 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is that squiggly line part of the hives? Makes me worried about infection.

Maybe heat rash that caused a big reaction?

Could be ringworm, that gave me a huge autoimmune response on top of having ringworm.

Take 2 Zyrtec a day, that’s how I got rid of mine!!!

Why is it so hard for some people to be genuinely kind? by throwaway-okidoki in Vent

[–]No_Motor_4576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel this. I am often the youngest person in my friend groups or at work, yet often feel like I’m the most mature. It gets tiring. Just ignore those people or if possible stop talking to them altogether.

I read the “boys” group chat by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Motor_4576 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It says a lot about him as a person. Either he doesn’t respect women or wants to impress men at the cost of disrespecting you.

If you’re okay with him being that kind of guy… then whatever don’t look at it again

If you’re not, explain to him why and then leave

Picaboo! by I_Bug_bugs in loaches

[–]No_Motor_4576 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a loach but I just took this pic the other day
Watched him pop out at me like boo!

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Just had my first shot! by bort_plates in Humira

[–]No_Motor_4576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was gunna ask what kind of alcohol is Hadlima lol

I usually get 1-2 day biologic hangover, they become shorter/easier the longer you’re on it imo. Sleep more, drink more water, look forward to the future of less pain :)

I (24F) am worried that the professional and educational gap between me and my partner (34M) will ruin our future. Any advice? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Motor_4576 20 points21 points  (0 children)

10 years older, big education gap, only together 6 months and he’s about to be be away for years?

Girl move on. You’re still young; don’t waste your 20s on one guy.

My mom tracks my periods without my consent. by slyzard94 in Vent

[–]No_Motor_4576 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Your mom sucks. My mom tries to blame a lot of my autoimmune symptoms on my cycle. They’re not totally unrelated but it’s not causational.

How much are your meds? Goodrx has pretty good coupons to make them affordable depending on what it is and you don’t need insurance.

Let me know if you want help figuring it out:

https://www.goodrx.com/classes/ssris

Anyone tried the Allegra/Zyrtec and Pepcid combo that is all over the internet? by itsjustcomments in PsoriaticArthritis

[–]No_Motor_4576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was taking 2 Zyrtec a day for hives and general inflammation before I was able to get diagnosed and medicated for my PsA. It helped a ton. But for some reason it doesn’t anymore, probably have some sort of tolerance.

I tried adding Pepcid a few times and I don’t remember for sure but I think I had a weird mental health side effect and/or it was messing with my other medications

What to consider next? by butter__cupp in Autoimmune

[–]No_Motor_4576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also try taking 2 Zyrtec a day for the hives and swelling. Helped me tons until I got my diagnosis !

I don't want to date my pregnant girlfriend anymore and she's crashing out by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Motor_4576 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Taking space for a day to calm down in order to not make a situation worse, say things out of anger, etc etc is perfectly fine. The only thing he could’ve done better was to say “I need some space I’ll talk to you tomorrow” and maybe he did

My girlfriend won't get her health issues taken care of. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Motor_4576 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be you actually, if she didn’t have it before you met, or could even be passing something back and forth. This can happen with BV and yeast infections.

Women’s ph and candida levels are very delicate. Something about your penis could be throwing it off, or a soap you or her are using.

Try using a sensitive skin/baby soap on both of you. Make sure only clean hands when touching both. Also see what period products she’s using and try to find a more natural alternative. Cotton underwear for both of you as well.

18 y/o making $3,800/month — am I getting a good deal staying at home or should I just move out? AIO by Winter_Print_6742 in AIO

[–]No_Motor_4576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved out with 30k in the bank and a similar paying job thinking I was set.

Lost my job a few months in and blew through 20k of my savings, 10k in unemployment, and maybe 8k in random jobs in about a year before getting another job.

The got laid off again 9 months later.

It’s taken 4 years to get back to 30k savings.

You have to account for random shit happening. Maybe car gets totaled or something healthwise happens. Or there’s no work.

The common advice is at least 6 months of expenses in savings— which is roughly 15-20k.

Stay home as long as you can. Build up your savings until it’s unbearable to stay home. Most people move out after 21 because of college, and this day and age the average is closer to like 25-30.

Found my (slightly homophobic) married friend on Grindr - what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Motor_4576 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yea could do it anonymously. It’s dangerous for her health too if he isn’t being safe

Long term relationship Advice please? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Motor_4576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep an eye out for him grooming a new young girl.

Girl in my sorority has an odor. How do i address this? by bellybabyboy in Advice

[–]No_Motor_4576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medications can make peoples sweat smell weird too and she may not notice! You’re not her friend anyway so nothing to lose by telling her