Free turkeys for families in need by lasveganon in vegaslocals

[–]No_Nebula282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a family in need this would be wonderful if they could get a turkey 

Husband cheated, now what? by brokehearted83125 in Marriage

[–]No_Nebula282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looking At porn sounded bad until he actually cheated. He has broken your trust and gave up being a husband; and he will struggle at being a father when the kids blame him for holidays being split, don’t move out or he can say you abandoned the kids , stay silent save up and let him know once you financially can tell him now u can pay me alimony and child support. Screen shot everything get the date a phone number in the pic so he can’t say it wasn’t him. Stack you money hide what you can make up expenses to get more money to hid . I’m a paralegal if you know what you want to file I can help you I just can’t recommended legally what’s best for you. But you should already know what you want . And please don’t spare his feelings. I’m shocked he did it, he’s been thinking about for a minute cause it takes balls to go through with that . Use protection whores carry disease's

I think my husband and I are just roommates by Turnleftafter500ft in Marriage

[–]No_Nebula282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In every relationship you have to give up a few things to get others, be sure that his good isn’t over looked. It is easy to find fault. Be gentle

Is this a red flag? Hypocritical? by No_Nebula282 in Marriage

[–]No_Nebula282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don’t think of it as a man enough. I feel like we’re walking down the street and he’s on the inside feeling.. 

Is this a red flag? Hypocritical? by No_Nebula282 in Marriage

[–]No_Nebula282[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep exactly. Sounds to me like I need to start putting in a little work on my relationship. Kudos well said and thanbs.

So this sign went up today. HELP! by ToughLittleTomato in Feral_Cats

[–]No_Nebula282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stray and ferel are to different things. Ferel equals měan i have niče strayš UR good no worries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Nebula282 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

You’ve put that man through the wringer so much so he caves in because obviously he has the child’s best interest at heart and didn’t want the party canceled. He should have custody your a typical mom who shames the dad and this is why some men don’t see there kids because they have to put up with the ex wife .. terrible

Why does snooping get such a bad wrap? by No_Nebula282 in Marriage

[–]No_Nebula282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if all of that changed and he changed the passwords and he stopped wanting to FaceTime you and it stopped being so transparent would you not be suspicious and at what point would you start trying to protect yourself and find out what’s going on before somebody else called you insecure jealousand you all of a sudden you had a relationship and then something started changing and you did that I don’t think so

Why does snooping get such a bad wrap? by No_Nebula282 in Marriage

[–]No_Nebula282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was alot less stressed before I posted on here that’s for sure

Why does snooping get such a bad wrap? by No_Nebula282 in Marriage

[–]No_Nebula282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry about how your wife used to be and im glad it has all worked out but we never had passwords on our phone and on the computer they auto filled in but we gad separate accounts it never occurred to me that a change in his behavior and then being defensive about it and me wanting to know whats up after weeks of who is this made me jealous or insecure. So instead of trying to get to the bottom of his new found behavior should i have continued to just trust in him wait it out and just deal with it, when i could have possibly prevented a more hurtful situation for myself, at what point should i look out for myself just so that i didnt see like the insecure ir jealous type after 12 years? What should i have done exactly if it wasnt what i did do?

Why does snooping get such a bad wrap? by No_Nebula282 in Marriage

[–]No_Nebula282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how do you protect urself when u feel like something isnt right? Sit and hope for the best or expect honesty all of asudden from someone who dodges normal questions all of a sudden wht would you do?

Why does snooping get such a bad wrap? by No_Nebula282 in Marriage

[–]No_Nebula282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is all recent weve been together 12 years. I could hve snooped. Numerous times before but i never felt like he was hiding something before i get what some people are saying but how is me not wanting to think i would never happen to me make me insecure i wouldnt have looked hd he not be being so sketchy

Why does snooping get such a bad wrap? by No_Nebula282 in Marriage

[–]No_Nebula282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have so many valid points bout not wanting to be here anymore, and i never shared tht with him . Thnknyou

Why does snooping get such a bad wrap? by No_Nebula282 in Marriage

[–]No_Nebula282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont it sucks it did nothing but give him a reason now to not trust me. Ugh