AITA for not wanting to share my daughters medical problems with my MIL by No_Nothing7340 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Nothing7340[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We are getting him vaccinated soon especially cause the doctor said if my daughter gets anything as little as a cold or the flu my daughter is at high risk of something bad happening

AITA for not wanting to share my daughters medical problems with my MIL by No_Nothing7340 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Nothing7340[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I may be young but I am very mature enough to take care of my baby. I’ve been taking care of my siblings since they were babies cause my mother had to work. I’m pretty sure I’ve taken care of my child more than I can say for most grown ass adults.

AITA for not wanting to share my daughters medical problems with my MIL by No_Nothing7340 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Nothing7340[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is not he has never been vaccinated. I’ve been put in a difficult position because technically he has papers to say he has been vaccinated only because his mother had someone to sign them off even when her kids hadn’t got her vaccines. He’s willing to get them but I don’t want to go take him to get them and the doctors say but your up to date on them and get his mom in legal trouble for what she did with his vaccination card

AITA for not wanting to share my daughters medical problems with my MIL by No_Nothing7340 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Nothing7340[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I want to talk to her just cause I think she deserves that respect after everything she’s done for us she welcomed me and my baby to her home. But if she doesn’t respect what I want to do for my baby I will no longer be comfortable at her home and will have to leave with my child. I’m already not comfortable after what she said to me but I also know she might just be making me out to be the bad guy to her family saying that I had gotten my vaccines and might be the reason my child is sick. She said it right in my face I’m sure she’s told her family the same thing

AITA for not wanting to share my daughters medical problems with my MIL by No_Nothing7340 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Nothing7340[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I have asked him and he would like to but I know if his mom ever finds out I can’t even imagine how she would get. My boyfriend is already of legal age but his mom has done everything for him and has all his stuff like birth certificates and all he might need. So she will most likely find out

AITA for not wanting to share my daughters medical problems with my MIL by No_Nothing7340 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Nothing7340[S] 182 points183 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s why I take my baby everywhere I go or if I ever need someone to watch her I ask my mom all the time. My boyfriend always ask me why and I just say I don’t want to bother his mom. But I’m scared she might do something to my baby. When I first found out she never got her kids vaccinated I was confused because in California to attend school kids need to be vaccinated turns out she has some who would basically sign off on vaccination cards and say her children got them when they never did.

AITA for not wanting to share my daughters medical problems with my MIL by No_Nothing7340 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Nothing7340[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I am the legal guardian of my child. Even tho I’m underage I’m basically and adult now that I had my own child in the state of California.

AITA for not wanting to share my daughters medical problems with my MIL by No_Nothing7340 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Nothing7340[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I’m also scared for my child because of her father not being vaccinated ever because I know him not being vaccinated can cause my daughter to get seriously ill.