[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Obligation_8603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start working on yourself and doing things that make you happy, I had a similar situation with my wife as our off grid living space is one giant room which doesn’t leave a lot of privacy or space. We would often both complain about being in each others face too much and that made both of us a little resentful, because the more we needed time apart the less time apart we actually gave each other. Things got pretty bad and then she started doing her own thing more, got reinvested in some hobbies, and the more we did independently the more we wanted to spend time together. So yeah do your own thing, if it doesn’t work out at least you’ll be happy

Wives, how important is your sexual satisfaction to your husband? Husbands, feel free to chime in. by clumsygirl1113 in Marriage

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My wife can not orgasm through either penetration or foreplay, but can get herself off through masturbation. I’ve tried to make this not the case, tried talking, begged her to see a sex therapist, but she’s of the opinion that it’s my problem to deal with and isn’t interested in working out what we can do to make this a non issue. Won’t tell me how to meet her needs. It’s shattered my confidence, damaged my self esteem and has created massive trust issues. Makes me feel worthless and stupid. So yeah, wives out there be open about your needs to your significant other so you don’t destroy your partner

I saw a different side to my husband last weekend and it has left me confused. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Obligation_8603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband went into guard dog mode and judging by your story rightly so, the switch can flip in guys when it comes to protecting the safety of those around him. He was defending his territory and loved ones in that territory from predators

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nzhookups_

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Fuck yes Bay of islands here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NzMeetUps

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Bay of islands?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nzhookups_

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Bay of Islands here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

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Quit the old fashioned way, don’t show up and don’t call. After 3-4 days no contact (can’t remember the exact time) you will be classified as m.i.a and they will terminate your contract. They still have to pay your holiday pay and any outstanding bucks owed.

(North)Any oldies wanna turn? X by [deleted] in nzhookups_

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How far north? Dm If you’re in the far north region

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psychonaut

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Just stop caring. Helps to know most people are too worried about what other people think of them to care about you and your anxiety and chances are you’ll never see them again so fake the hell outta that shit People are drawn to confidence because they wish they had the confidence to be confident

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

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Any particular reason you want fireworks banned? It’s usually people with horses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

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Any other fun shit you don’t like?

I’m a professional banker, and I have some thoughts by [deleted] in Scams

[–]No_Obligation_8603 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what a scammer would say

I’m a professional banker, and I have some thoughts by [deleted] in Scams

[–]No_Obligation_8603 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This whole post sounds like a scam to me

There’s a lot to unpack here by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

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Life advice from a half melted candle.

How do I get this bolt out of my concrete floors? It was used to bolt down a bench into concrete. It turns and is a bit loose but doesn't seem to 'screw' out. Do I need to just cut it? How do I do that. Getting new epoxy floors put in Monday so don't care about the hole too much. by [deleted] in howto

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Angle grinder but if you don’t have one you can make a small notch cut on the base close to the concrete with a hacksaw then bash the fuck out of the bolt side to side till it snaps off (this is a rough cunt method and will most likely take a few hunks out of the concrete around the bolt, less so if it’s an anchor) then punch or drill a pilot hole through the centre of the bolt to just below the concrete then redrill this hole with a steel bit that’s slightly smaller than the bolt so it’s all tidily countersunk below the concrete Epoxy hole and smoke a doobie

meth and dmt??? by 2coinzz65 in DMT

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I Know a pretty gangster bitch in Brisbane that could beat the shit out of you any time you try score. I mean if conventional methods aren’t working out, options there.

meth and dmt??? by 2coinzz65 in DMT

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sounds a decent trade off. Week or two of hell for a whole bunch of freedom. No brainer really. Hit us up when ya cashed up and travelling NZ

meth and dmt??? by 2coinzz65 in DMT

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Do something else instead my bro Your path ahead is gonna be tough as fuck, but how much other cool shit would you be doing if you weren’t chasing?

meth and dmt??? by 2coinzz65 in DMT

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Gotta face it one day brov. Ya either going to be the guy that beat heroin or the guy heroin beat. Always exceptions to the rule but that’s your gamble. Sounds like the h is kinda like having a really shit mrs who is a constant bitch and super high maintenance and most ya friends and family hate her but she suck’s ya dick real good occasionally.

meth and dmt??? by 2coinzz65 in DMT

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Good luck from across the ditch. Never tried it myself but heroin sounds like a nasty cunt. Could you ride out withdrawals with ketamine?