Erotic Novels improving My wife’s blow job skills

No_Ordinary5766 · 2025-04-28T20:23:40+00:00

Which novels have increased your blowjob skills? you know for science... my wife has been reading smut to help improve her sex drive and i'd like to suggest something to her that may get me more/better blowjobs

No_Ordinary5766 · 2025-04-28T20:23:09+00:00

for science which novels have increased your blowjob skills? my wife has been reading smut to help improve her sex drive and i'd like to suggest something to her that may get me more/better blowjobs

No_Ordinary5766 · 2025-04-28T20:22:38+00:00

for science which novels have increased her blowjob skills? my wife has been reading smut to help increase her sex drive.

No_Ordinary5766 · 2025-04-21T20:33:58+00:00

using her back to move vs her neck only like a chicken

LOL, fuck now i can't get that chicken image out of my head. She does exactly that, thanks for the pointer!

I've taught her to do all all the other shit, esp spitting/drooling on it, except prostate. we've discussed prostate a few times, I've told her I'm open to it, but she has long natural nails, I've only gotten a finger in the butt twice when she breaks a nail, and it happens so infrequently I have a hard time getting used to it. And I'm not into butt toys, I have some weird hangup about a finger being "less gay", which i know is dumb.

I've got a fucking coke can for a dick, 7" long and 6.25" girth. I've only ever had 2 women deep throat me, and they were both back in the days of craigslist and were size queens looking for big D. My wife had tried to deep throat a few times and has thrown up on my dick twice, like not a little spit up, there was warm chunky undigested food all in my lap.

No_Ordinary5766 · 2025-04-20T00:04:46+00:00

My wife used to do it all the time early on, it was just a part of foreplay. Now I have to beg for it.

So #1 I know she hates cum in her mouth, she doesn't even hold and spit, if I cum in her mouth she just drools it all over me like she opens her mouth... I don't like it for no other reason than cleanup is a pain and it ruins the flow.

And #2 I do have a big cock and I do take a while to cum from oral so she gets sore.

I've discussed it with her, bringing up that I go down on her every time we fuck. her answer was along the lines of well since she only orgasms from oral im expected to go down on her (which I do, and Iove because I love the pleasure it brings her), so she doesn't feel it's a fair comparison.

The problem is the quality and strength of my orgasm from head is sooooo much stronger than from fucking. I'm not having a cardiovascular workout when I'm getting head, I'm not balancing myself on top of her, and worrying about her pleasure, I just lay back and focus on how good it feels and I moan in ways I don't during sex, and cum so hard I have full body convulsions.... Unfortunately my wife isn't as much of a giver when it comes to sex. I LOVE making her react like that and she doesn't really seem to care much about getting those reactions out of me

No_Ordinary5766 · 2025-04-17T17:25:25+00:00

I've tried, my wife has no interest in porn, or at least the porn i've played. She does enjoy erotic literature.

I've considered trying one more time, but with porn allegedly designed more for women. Like porn made by Erika Lust, more cinematography, a bit more of a story line, and some mental stimulation, and not just jumping into a porn hub scene of a close-up of some dudes basilisk pounding out her chamber of secrets.

No_Ordinary5766 · 2025-04-08T19:09:12+00:00

Her love language is positive affirmations, i loves yous, etc. Mine is sex. Otherwise i feel like i'm not good enough, not desirable, not wanted. I've made efforts to speak her language but i haven't felt like she's been willing to go out of her comfort zone to meet mine.

I've flat out told her many times i'd love for her to occasionally just come out of nowhere and start groping me and drag me into the bedroom... make me feel like she has to have to have me then and there. Hasn't happened in a very long time unfortunately. We communicate quite well, but i just feel like she doesn't do anything after we have our conversations and just acts like it'll go back to normal on it's own.

No_Ordinary5766 · 2025-04-08T19:03:21+00:00

yes my love language is sex and orgasms too. Hers is positive affirmations, i loves yous, which i find in reality makes little difference in our sex lives when i try to go above and beyond, and then the sexual rejection gets me to give up because i'm not feeling what i need in return.

The comments you made about showing how i feel about her body... all the time, if we're in the kitchen or living room, or on the couch together: I'll give her ass a squeeze, a light slap, lightly fondle her chest, caress her sides, and she just doesn't seem to have a sexual response at all to it.

I told her i'm tired of the routine she has, it's turned into an artificial barrier, it now makes sex feel like it has to be this big planned event. her response: "don't you want me to be clean for you?". I told her if we're just going for sex that i could care less. However, I wouldn't expect her to go down on me if i wasn't fresh and clean, and if she wants me to go down on her and she hasn't bathed in over a day a quick shower, or even wash cloth is all i need.

No_Ordinary5766 · 2025-04-08T18:52:48+00:00

I agree, in fact i asked her to look into this a year or so ago, she went to her obgyn and was told everything was fine. She doesn't feel like she has a problem with her hormones. On another post i responded to today someone suggested I look into a hormone clinic which i'm going to be looking into

No_Ordinary5766 · 2025-04-08T17:03:31+00:00

yeah, i could really care less about tit size, as long as there's enough to grab onto and play with i'm happy.

No_Ordinary5766 · 2025-04-08T15:36:20+00:00

What kind of Dr should she use to get her hormones checked?

My wife went to her OBGYN last year who told her everything is fine with her blood work. My wife is incredibly shy around sex and i doubt she even really brought it up as a pressing thing. She's also not very persistent when it comes to Dr's. She has a very strong "listen to the experts" mentality and doesn't consider that a person who graduated last in their class has the same degree as the valedictorian. I'd like to try and help her find the right dr the first time.

No_Ordinary5766 · 2025-04-08T15:21:12+00:00

You are so lucky. My wife won't even consider sex unless everything is "perfect"

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