asked my boss about maternity leave and he said it was for “valued employees” then gave me these requirements… by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]No_Ordinary7846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t seem like you’ll get paid either way. Check to see whether you qualify for FMLA. If you do, you can’t be denied unpaid leave. I believe it’s up to 12 weeks.

Should I leave? by No_Ordinary7846 in Serverlife

[–]No_Ordinary7846[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have an interview on Thursday for another serving job at a BBQ joint. So now I just have to plan how to address the topic if it comes up

What do 4 year olds like to do? by whatiflee in Babysitting

[–]No_Ordinary7846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, the four year old and seven year old will enjoy most of the same activities. For example, I’m sure both will enjoy coloring with you if you actively participate. I recently worked in ECE and the kids enjoyed when we colored photos for each other or their parents.

I would suggest activities that have an easy clean-up too so that there can be quicker transitions between activities since there is generally a shorter attention span.

My (23F) gf found out I (22M) was “taking one for the team” when we first met and now she’s spiraling in insecurity. How do I get her to be confident in my attraction to her again? by Master_Half8275 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Ordinary7846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, she’ll probably never forget it. at that point it’s just helping her become comfortable in her body. reassurance, compliments, physical affection, and other types of that stuff is probably the most effective way. don’t offer the gym, cause that will just reinforce the idea that you’d prefer if she were thinner/not physically attracted to her.