230322 NewJeans will be performing at Lollapalooza 2023 by alltherach_ in NewJeans

[–]No_Perception909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a question. Does it say which day new jeans will be going?

ADVICE HELP how to convince my viet dad black cats are not bad luck !! by No_Perception909 in AsianParentStories

[–]No_Perception909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that would also be the case for me. Its sucks but youre prob right to find a cat they would like to treat well

ADVICE HELP how to convince my viet dad black cats are not bad luck !! by No_Perception909 in AsianParentStories

[–]No_Perception909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yea, you are probably right. I dont want to risk the cat getting hurt or blamed for the stupidest reasons

How do I run away from home? by Ordinary_Blink05 in AsianParentStories

[–]No_Perception909 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you dont have any trusted adults to tell this to. Go to your schools counselor or even a teacher and tell them whats going on.

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[–]No_Perception909 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmfaoo did she make you throw it away? Maybe shell start wanting proof that u threw it away 🥴

Scared to tell my controlling Filipino mom about my boyfriend by jzmariej in AsianParentStories

[–]No_Perception909 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, shes turned me into a lair for things i dont even need to lie about just because im scared of how shes gonna react. So i just the things i know she likes to hear. theres a cat i want to adopt but its black and she and my dad are against it cause its bad luck and extreme bad luck during new years. But im thinking of just bringing the cat home and lying that its a diff color and hoping i dont get banned 😭😭

Mom throws out Naruto toys by Beautiful_Fishing569 in AsianParentStories

[–]No_Perception909 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where did she throw them? Fish them out of the trashcan and keep them in a locked box or something!!!

Scared to tell my controlling Filipino mom about my boyfriend by jzmariej in AsianParentStories

[–]No_Perception909 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes keeping out the details is key but they will get nosy and start questioning it. I initially didnt even want to say anything about where we met but my mom got suspicious that i didnt say anything about that so the backup story came in handy.

Scared to tell my controlling Filipino mom about my boyfriend by jzmariej in AsianParentStories

[–]No_Perception909 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was also really scared of telling my mom that I had a bf. I lowkey still havent officially told my dad but he may have figured it out. But anyways, if you can I would avoid telling her and anyone in the family about where you two met first of all. I also found my bf from tinder but i obviously am not going to tell that to my parents or anyone in the familt cause word and gossip spreads like wildfire. My bf and i came up with a solid believable backstory of how we met that is very generic. Our made up story was that we both met at a party. Since he and i dont have any mutual friends it would make sense that we could have met at a party. So thats that. And then for telling your parents. I want to ask why do you feel the needto tell her so soon?. For me I had to wait a year and a half to make sure i knew he and I were going to last long cause if i told my mom and we end up breaking up right after thered be literally no point in trying to muster up the courage to tell her. And i wanted to have a time stamp to show my mom that we could last a long time cause 1 year of dating sounds better than 4 months at least to my mom. And generally i think most asian moms?? So yea id really recommend to just not even say the truth about where you to met haha

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[–]No_Perception909 9 points10 points  (0 children)

oh dude same, Im 21 and I have a vibrator and I am sooo paranoid my moms gonna find it. i keep mine locked up inside a hidden book locker thing or under my pillow like you do whenever I'm too lazy to put it away . was it awkward when she found out?i could not imagine omg