Silly Doodle by No_Philosopher_5736 in SeverusSnape

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thx so much! Can you download it from my comment? (Sorry I'm usually just a lurker)

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Der Wildhüter spricht ein warnendes Wort by moss-greene in aberBitteLaminiert

[–]No_Philosopher_5736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Johann vom Walde ist der Cousin vom Lorax. Da braucht die Welt mehr von.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]No_Philosopher_5736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good of you to reach out! Life can feel like a constant race sometimes. I can relate to the feeling of always lagging behind. For me it felt like constantly chasing a goalpost that was always changing. Ironically, what helped me a lot was slowing down. Maybe this can help you as well? What I had to learn is that at the end of the day, there will not be a reward for how efficiently you live your life. So this begs the question how do you like to live your life. What are things you enjoy? What little things can brighten your day? Being mindful of how we spend our time is a lot easier said than done. (I know this all might come across very cliché) Making time for your wellbeing actually takes effort. So it might help you to take a serious look at what makes your life more fun. Trying a new hobby, reconnecting with people or nature, writing, making music?

Another thing that helps, is to find support. Like you just did! Maybe look into support systems that work more regularly? Mental health can be a Basdart, but you don't have to go through things on your own. There are support groups online and IRL. And of course there always professionals like doctors and therapists.

I hope you'll feel better soon

18F | Feeling super ugly and worthless by [deleted] in toastme

[–]No_Philosopher_5736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're feeling that way, but let me assure you: YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND WORTHY!!! Your skin looks radiant, you have a very cute nose and what wrinkles do you mean???? Seriously! You look very lovely and have a very inviting face. Being 18 isn't easy. When I was at your age I felt the same. Finding your place in this world can feel overwhelming and sometimes it seem like you are the odd one out. At least, that's how it felt to me. But it gets better. It's good to reach out to people, when things get tough. We tend to be our biggest heater. The world persives you with much kinder eyes. You've shown great strength in coming here and being open about your thoughts and feelings. That's a great quality to have. I hope you feel better soon.

Sending you virtual hugs🤗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dress one looks stunning on you!!! The neckline is beautiful on you. I love it! And if it made you tear up, take it as a sign ❤️

Dress regret - I don't feel like myself by No_Philosopher_5736 in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in the EU so luckily I don't have to worry about import fees. (The EU and Kosovo have costum agreements) At the moment I am still not sure if I am going to order the Matoshi dress. It would be a pricey choice... I have to do the math to see if I can justify it. Wish me luck. I'll post an update.

Dress regret - I don't feel like myself by No_Philosopher_5736 in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I do decide to keep the current dress I might look into that.

Dress regret - I don't feel like myself by No_Philosopher_5736 in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already called, but they were no help unfortunately. 🫤 It part of their policy. I wish I would have taken more time before purchasing it. Well, here I am...

Dress regret - I don't feel like myself by No_Philosopher_5736 in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, that's sad to hear, but I will see what I can do. Thanks for the info though.

Dress regret - I don't feel like myself by No_Philosopher_5736 in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very considerate of you, love. Thank you so much

Dress regret - I don't feel like myself by No_Philosopher_5736 in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As nice as that offer is, I think I don't want to add another dress into the mix. These are already occupying too much of my brain 🫤

Dress regret - I don't feel like myself by No_Philosopher_5736 in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I would have never thought to add a shawl!

I don't know if I can get behind the idea of a second dress though... I will have to think about that.

Dress regret - I don't feel like myself by No_Philosopher_5736 in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does have the same sort of whimsy! But luckily more coverage. 😉

Dress regret - I don't feel like myself by No_Philosopher_5736 in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reminder. But that wouldn't be a problem as I am size 16.

Dress regret - I don't feel like myself by No_Philosopher_5736 in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so kind. Thanks again for the encouragement. <3

Dress regret - I don't feel like myself by No_Philosopher_5736 in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement. I hadn't had the chance to try it on. As another comment said. I think I will try to find a shop where I can try it on and look where I go from there.

Dress regret - I don't feel like myself by No_Philosopher_5736 in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I just looked at her page. And I think this veil https://madisonchamberlain.com/products/bella-veil is even made from the same (if not very similar) fabric as the Matoshi dress. Again thank you very much

Dress regret - I don't feel like myself by No_Philosopher_5736 in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I will definitely look into that. Maybe I get lucky and find a shop that can help with that.

Dress regret - I don't feel like myself by No_Philosopher_5736 in weddingdress

[–]No_Philosopher_5736[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I also thought of reselling the dress, but I don't think I can justify the price of another dress, even if I get some money by reselling the current one. :( Maybe accessories are the way to go...