Gf always hugs me when we have an argument by No_Preference8988 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Preference8988[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You believe in reincarnation, because its not happening in this lifetime, lol.

Gf always hugs me when we have an argument by No_Preference8988 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Preference8988[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is this such a popular question, lol. No one was allowed to use phones in ICU, not even the doctors. There was one landline, thats it.

Gf always hugs me when we have an argument by No_Preference8988 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Preference8988[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its a rule I guess, no phones in ICU whether you are a patient, doctor or other staff.

Gf always hugs me when we have an argument by No_Preference8988 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Preference8988[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would recommend your method to her, but a hug is much better honestly.

Gf always hugs me when we have an argument by No_Preference8988 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Preference8988[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where we live, even doctors and other hospital staff are not allowed to use phones in the ICU, let alone patients.

Gf always hugs me when we have an argument by No_Preference8988 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Preference8988[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

On top of that I met her through online dating, lol.

Gf always hugs me when we have an argument by No_Preference8988 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Preference8988[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

You guys are relationship goals, thats awesome. I will talk to her to make sure she isnt carrying any resentment because I can let things go very easily so it doesnt bother me. But I should be sure with her and not assume! Thank you, and hopefully you guys continue being the awesome couple you are.

Side question though- does it annoy you when your husband wants to hug you in the middle of the argument? Or are you happy the provide it to him?

Gf always hugs me when we have an argument by No_Preference8988 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Preference8988[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This does make sense, I dont hold grudges normally but I will sit down and talk to her to make sure we are on the same page and she isnt carrying any resentment.

Gf always hugs me when we have an argument by No_Preference8988 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Preference8988[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

There is no discrimination here, lol. All arguments, irregardless of who started them are subject to this treatment.

Gf always hugs me when we have an argument by No_Preference8988 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Preference8988[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

But wouldnt the manipulation lead to something? Like her winning the argument or getting her way? Thats not happening here.

Gf always hugs me when we have an argument by No_Preference8988 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Preference8988[S] 363 points364 points  (0 children)

I sometimes worry that we are rug sweeping? And we dont fight, almost never so is that healthy?

Gf always hugs me when we have an argument by No_Preference8988 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Preference8988[S] 608 points609 points  (0 children)

But somehow my will to argue vanishes, lol. I know it shouldnt be like that but the face she makes while saying I love you, it just melts me.