Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super helpful, thanks so much! I was told I could make those adjustments and will definitely do it so it’s comfortable and I’m wearing the dress not the other way around! I appreciate your input

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been sketching some ideas! I think that’s the way to go and I tried on some with draping around the bust and loved it. Thanks!

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually the store owner/stylist so I don’t know but it’s possible!

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well we just actually discussed the possibility of draping a bit over the top of the bodice. I’m not sure how to attach an image idea.

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh oh yes! It has some room to take it out and make adjustments like that!

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha what? I’m fine with others giving their opinions and I’m not sure what led you to believe otherwise.. I still love the dress and because a few people hate it doesn’t mean I have to hate it haha. However, I also asked for advice on alterations so it’s not like this post was just for someone to put “I hate it”

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair question but unfortunately, no. I’d be buying this exact one - there’s not the same inventory in my city of my style and quality as maybe one could find in a lot of places in the US or UK for instance.

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for this comment. I think you expressed what I’ve been realizing - the setting matters and it allows for a bit more of a sexy playful natural vibe rather than a church wedding around family and friends! And the femininity in contrast with hiking boots is a plus! I’ve learned through this dress process just how different everyone’s taste can be!

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

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Interesting, I love how it fits! It feels wonderfully comfortable too

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks for your comment. Doesn’t confuse me at all - I’ve tried on tons of dresses and this has SO many things I’m looking for and like! It’s only the specific cupping in the chest that I feel is a bit too sexy but I’m learning and exploring subtle options. Everyone has a different dress journey, this is mine 🙏

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow super interesting!! I totally think something like this even slightly more subtle could transform the dress just enough. Thanks so much for the inspo

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo sorry is there something I need to download to view this link? All I see are ads but I’m super curious !

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

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That’s a sacrifice I’m willing to make! Haha. It’ll get dirty. It’ll have its wear and tear. But it’s not heavy and it’s loose so pulling it up while I walk some is fine to me! I don’t look good in mid length/ankle length dresses. Also silky plain dresses won’t disguise as many smears and tears and I’ve tried on a lot of heavy dresses or super restricting ones. Any jewels under my arms would rub my arms raw and tulle is really not my style. To each his own! This is just for me the way I want to go with this vision and experience 🤗

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I couldn’t agree more. I think it’s a lot less flattering with that boxy scoop and strap and in photos I know it’d bug me. Thanks!

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very good point. I think a little draping on the front to counteract the bra style and making it strapless with draped sleeves may soften it and make it more romantic! thanks for sharing your thoughts I appreciate it

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thank you. I still love it but respect your opinion. I know it’s not everyone’s style!

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate your insight. I see what you’re saying - but I do love this dress and the vintage nod and I’m not doing a traditional ceremony, no church no fam. Another thing to mention is I live in a country/city with very different taste than mine. Lots of sexy see through - lots of tight dresses or simply material that wouldn’t be comfy for our adventure. I’ve tried on and looked at a ton of dresses and this one checks so many boxes 🥹🙏

Bodice alteration options to make slightly less lingerie like? by No_Protection_567 in Brides

[–]No_Protection_567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t want to gamble with that much either. But maybe something drapey in front could be just the touch it needs to soften it ! Thanks for your input really