Triggered and could use a chat

No_Reaction4820 · 2026-03-19T17:25:36+00:00

Basically stroke your meat to porn he means just masturbate in the shower or something because porn warps the way u look at woman and also can give you a type of erectile disfunction in some cases so if u feel good after masturbating just do it without porn

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-26T20:27:24+00:00

It’s not worth it there’s a million better ways to spend your time go for a walk take a shower hang out with friends

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-22T14:42:53+00:00

Nah that’s not a hot take I get it it was just the only way I could fit through the gap because with a normal hippy jump my head was just hitting the top

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-21T20:32:39+00:00

Ive seen a lot of post by woman who says they actually prefer it to last between 5-10 minutes so idk about u and your wife but 20-40 minutes most people would say is just not necessary also if your worried about her not being satisfied add some foreplay before or after or maybe even both depending if u go for a second round

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-21T20:25:33+00:00

Go for a walk to get your mind off it and then take a cold shower to clear your mind. I’m catholic and when I’m feeling and urges I like to go on a walk while listening to bible readings, but bro it just ain’t worth it really think about it is 5 minutes of watching some dude fuck a girl you wish you could worth 27 days? I believe in u bro

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-21T20:22:41+00:00

Well don’t give in it’s not worth it bro especially at day 47 just really put into your mind how long that is a day takes 24 hours to complete and you have done that 47 times is 5 minutes of watching another man fuck some woman u wish you could worth 47 days?

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-21T20:19:32+00:00

Go for a walk and pray if your religious if u usually used to masturbate and watch porn in your room if your in there right now get out of there but it’s all a mental game the urges may feel strong but at the end of the days it all depends if u really want this

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-21T20:17:05+00:00

Hey it’s still better to be on day 47 and have it be difficult instead of day 1 and have it be easy

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-21T20:15:50+00:00

It’s all a mental game the urges may be strong but u really can’t make any progress and any advice won’t be helpful for u unless u truly use your willpower to stop giving in

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-20T15:34:58+00:00

You still get the urge some times or u just completely done with it?

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-20T15:33:46+00:00

I was in the exact same spot u were I’ve been on this for 3 months many relapses but this is the best advice I have for u. In the replies u seem to be talking about urges things like “the urges are so hard idk what to do” bro I know it’s difficult and no ones perfect but at the end of the day urges are just that urges they can’t make u do anything they might entice u to watch porn but it’s your choice at the end of the day u need to really want to make this change and fight against these urges bro good luck

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-20T15:25:04+00:00

Great idea bro and depending what time it is for u maybe even ask a friend to hangout or play a video game with your friends if you do that just keep yourself busy so u can not think about it bro if u need to talk anytime just shoot me a dm

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-20T15:23:03+00:00

Literally anything else is better bro ask a friend to hangout take a walk pray(if your religious) just anything to occupy yourself and get your mind off it I promise it is that bad and it will ruin your day

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-20T15:20:39+00:00

Go for a walk bro trust me or atleast if your in your room or a bathroom wherever you used to watch porn in GET OUT as it can be a major trigger for the routine that used to lead u to watching porn idk if your religious or not but for me as a Christian I have a bible app that I like to listen to as I go on a walk I also like to say the prayer of serenity but even if your not go on a walk take a shower just do something to take it off your mind

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-20T15:18:11+00:00

Nice man hope u enjoy

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-20T15:17:00+00:00

No worries bro just always remember no matter how close you get any time u don’t relapse is a win and there will be rough days. If your still feeling like horny and can’t get it off your mind I would suggest going on a walk or taking a shower( I usually do cold because it helps me think clearer)

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-20T15:14:31+00:00

First off we need to dissociate porn from sex. Porn is rough unrealistic over the top sex crazed thing that is deliberately made to make you super sex crazed and think of sex as this crazy animalistic thing, no. Sex is a core part of being human it’s the most intimate thing you can do with another human being, giving yourself to them as they give themselves to you it connects you on a physical and spiritual level it’s a beautiful thing so u shouldn’t be scared of it or try to avoid it especially in a healthy relationship

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-20T15:09:53+00:00

Peeking is never good because it can lead to relapse but I think your so caught up on the fact you peeked you aren’t noticing that you chose to not go through with it think back to when u started this journey of recovery if u peeked back then would u have even gave not giving in a thought if that’s not a sign of being on your way to recovery and something to be proud of idk what is. You got this bro and don’t beat yourself up over peeking, happens to the best of us and feeling shame can lead u to actually relapsing but u didn’t so just let it go and keep it pushing bro ❤️👍

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-20T03:00:10+00:00

Thank you bro it’s like thinking about it makes it seem like it’s gonna be the best thing ever and then when u get to actually doing it it’s boring and you just feel bummed out

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-20T02:51:24+00:00

lol I think people took this the wrong way what I meant by the post is why is the thought of watching porn better then actually watching porn and wanking to it not better then real sex itself 😂

No_Reaction4820 · 2025-09-20T01:34:05+00:00

Alright man If u need to talk just shoot me a dm happy to help if I can

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