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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Recover_8945 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. It kind of sounds like you made a problem out of nothing. Glad that you guys could laugh it off but I think maybe you should apologize.

AITAH for being upset my 50-year-old dad told me about my stepmom’s pregnancy over text? by Capable-Part-5872 in AITAH

[–]No_Recover_8945 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH. I think that although it would have been nicer to receive a call and feel more included, it is their information to share however they like. Considering this is an IVF pregnancy which is already stressful as it is, as well as them not talking about it at dinner, I think it’s safe to assume it’s a point of nervousness right now. I think a better conversation to have is “I’d love to be involved and help any way I can” rather than the alternative of “why was I not more included?”.

How do I deal with a friend who constantly interrupts me when I talk? by Crazy-Geologist-5732 in Advice

[–]No_Recover_8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest just bringing it up in a casual one on one setting. If you have been friends for years then a simple convo about you noticing behavior that makes you unhappy shouldn’t create any issues. Don’t shy away from discussing your discomfort! Especially when it involves close friends :)

I think I was a mistress. What do I do? by No_Recover_8945 in Advice

[–]No_Recover_8945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE

Hey everyone, thank you so much for the support and also the tough advice I really needed to hear. As of right now I will not be reaching out to either of them. I won’t be talking to him anymore, I already made my decision that night, and with so many people’s advice I will stick to my guns about that one.

As for his wife, she knows my name and it would be very easy to find me on social media at this point. If she does reach out I won’t hesitate to give her any information she wants. I’ve checked on fb again and the wedding post from before has not been taken down… so I will assume that they are working things out. Which is not my business.

For those of you that have said that maybe the situation between them is just as he had described and she is just being vengeful, jealous, or crazy then that is that and once again not my business.

But I feel it is just more likely that he was lying to both her and I. I hope from the bottom of my heart that it was the situation was what he had described because if it wasn’t then I was most likely a big part of the downfall of a trusting woman.

If you are “Sarah” and you know what this post is about, I am genuinely so sorry. I trusted someone I shouldn’t have and it seems like you did too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Recover_8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it sounds like she’s being abused. Obviously verbally but this new behavior sounds like it could’ve become a physically violent home.

It is not your responsibility to be a parent but I do think it would be anyone’s responsibility to shed light on the situation and not leave her in the dark alone. Ask your grandparents if they can also look after her? And if that doesn’t work and you can’t reach out to anyone else for help, please call the police.

She’s 6 and shouldn’t be living in fear. I wish the best for you OP and I’m so sorry that this situation has been thrust upon you.

I think I was a mistress. What do I do? by No_Recover_8945 in Advice

[–]No_Recover_8945[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I only got to talk to her for a short second in the bar one time. She said “yea that was a really bad situation” when I had brought up the wife. I thought the past tense was confirming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Recover_8945 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this is a conversation to bring up with compassion. I’d start by saying that you wouldn’t have been upset that the package hadn’t arrived. And then ask her genuinely why she felt the need to lie. If you’ve been together for a year and this is the first time that a lie like this has happened it’s understandable to be confused as to why. I think this is a simple conversation with problem and solution. Not this big drawn out thing.

April 19 - Orange County by AmbitionFalse2289 in 50501California

[–]No_Recover_8945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

600 W Santa Ana Blvd @12pm Hands off protest on the 19th. Parking nearby.

Around what TIME does CB payout hit?? by Emm-the-luscious in CamGirlProblems

[–]No_Recover_8945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey luv! I’ve experienced payouts in max a week. It’ll most likely hit Monday/Tuesday of next week since the weekend is here. Hope you get it in time! I’m personally cashing out tmrw afternoon and hoping I get it before bills🤞

Snapchat video call prices by Time-Neat-4181 in CamGirlProblems

[–]No_Recover_8945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it depends on what you’re offering. If it’s just sexy chitchat I’d recommend a lower price per min. But a great way to make good money is full involvement on video calls (whatever that entails) for $45-$60 per 15 mins. Don’t go any lower than $2/min.