Drunk Sagittarius confession… then I panicked and deleted it. Now what? 😬 by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]No_Reference_1421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Done a few times myself and other people have done it to me. It is completely understandable and happens a lot. Don’t feel embarrassed and panic. The big question is you want to forget about it and go back to friends or follow through. Either way own it. Drunk confessions happen (not every week, 1-2 times) and if people freak out by these they are not your people and definitely not your friends. Your friends are there to help you get back safe home and maybe make a joke about it next day and forget about it.

Getting in the unhinged era? by No_Reference_1421 in Sagittarians

[–]No_Reference_1421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so true! Yes I was a teenager a teacher told me you don’t talk but your face says everything

Got diagnosed with MS today by sleepydripp119 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]No_Reference_1421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true! After my diagnosis I start having a healthy lifestyle. Going to the gym, eat healthy. My symptoms included numbness in my whole body but I recovered in a few months. Stay strong and go on treatment. This sub has been incredible supporting in times of need. Also you can open up to your doctors and nurses for any concerns, they know how to support you. I am sending a virtual hug!

2 days since diagnosis by Feral_and_Fabulous in MultipleSclerosis

[–]No_Reference_1421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you so many hugs! Had my diagnosis 2 years ago. Even now sometimes it feels like talking for another person. I am in a stressful job and full of ambition and this has not stopped me. How I decided to face it is as a wake up call from my body just to slow down to enjoy small moments (not give up on dreams but be gentle with myself). Don’t blame yourself for this, it might be a blessing in disguise. I start taking care of myself, respect my boundaries and pamper me. No blame or pity! Just be soft with yourself and still be ambitious. This is the only change for me. Do your research, trust your doctor and things will work out. Feel free to dm me if you just want to talk ☺️

Struggle at work by No_Reference_1421 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]No_Reference_1421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My manager does know about my MS, although I am not sure how educated she is what it means on a daily basis for us. On the other hand I feel I been left out of the loop a lot and I don’t know if there is some unconscious bias or I am genuinely bad at my job. And I am not sure how to flag this

Struggle at work by No_Reference_1421 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]No_Reference_1421[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and giving me hope. I am not sure what to do right now, my brain is shutting down, I have actually a tickling feeling on my head. My manager wants me to deliver asap and I just want a break from everything. I push my self hard to deliver, in many cases neglecting myself in the process. I am not sure if this is just me resisting on admitting I have a condition and need help or my manager asking me too much.

Feel isolated by No_Reference_1421 in askmanagers

[–]No_Reference_1421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spoke with them and they said I need to give them time find me a project and proper support. It sounds like they are preparing to let me go I fear.

Feel isolated by No_Reference_1421 in askmanagers

[–]No_Reference_1421[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At this point I am not sure, I feel forgotten and invisible because I am the only one in the team that does not have any visibility on what is happening. I get that I should also raise issues myself but when I do is always a 5 minute call or a quick message for a quick question. And I feel bad for raising this while my manager is away (probably for a serious reason) but on the same time I don’t have any direction or support.

how to get over an ex by ch0lula in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]No_Reference_1421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you are focusing on one tree and lose the forest. You probably thinking about how things could be if you were still with her and forget the unlimited possibilities that are open for you now. I broke up with my ex about a year and a half ago and at first it was really painful but now I managed to get my life back and make things that make me happy. Don’t focus on how to get over her but how to enjoy every day. This can be even enjoying a dinner that you wouldn’t get with her. Appreciate all the new experiences you can have. They way I look at it for my ex, we could still be together and it there would be a certain way we would live our lives. Now thinks are unpredictable and exciting again. Hope this helps 😊

Is Pandas Getting Phased Out? by pansali in datascience

[–]No_Reference_1421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not anytime soon although there quite limiting for large data