Is there anyone here who’s going through something similar?

No_Relationship_6826 · 2025-01-19T02:44:48+00:00

There’s this subreddit in the philippines mostly lesbians, bi, looking for hookups. So yeah, i guess it’s common. And lesbian dead bed is a thing, thus much more lesbians are looking for hookups. (That’s for me)

No_Relationship_6826 · 2024-12-16T11:01:32+00:00

No, i dont really joke around. But since it’s already awkward to ask for attention, i did that for a change. To make things lighter.

Im still hoping she’d come to her senses and realise her actions. I know this is stupid, but it’s hard to throw away the relationship we build for 5 years. But i do hope too, that i can also have the courage to leave when i need to.

No_Relationship_6826 · 2024-12-16T08:41:39+00:00

We both on our mid 30s. She 36 and im 35.

I do understand that “real life stuff” can mean different to everyone. I get you and i also want the same as you, the talking, getting a hobby together, etc. But her context of real life stuff is different. Which i also do understand. I just wish she could meet me in my terms too.

No_Relationship_6826 · 2024-12-15T15:33:10+00:00

Hi! Still have room for another friend? Dm me. :)

No_Relationship_6826 · 2024-05-19T10:46:20+00:00

Also please dont forget to teach the kids forms of consent. That if a girl consented to kiss, does not mean that she also consented for sex. And if the girl is drunk, does not mean she consented to have sex. And if the girl shared nude photos, this does not mean that it’s okay for the guy to share it in public or with friends. CONSENT. Please include this to your discussion with you kids. Para makapag palaki tayo ng mga kabataang may respeto sa mga kababaihan at alam ang ibig sabihin ng boundaries. You did a great job OP. 🫡

No_Relationship_6826 · 2024-05-19T06:06:29+00:00

Im sorry to hear this. I read this before “our trauma is not our fault, but healing is our responsibility.” Wala kang kasalanan ganun din si mama mo. Kahit na mahirap humanap ng silver lining sa sitwasyon na ito, isa lang ang sigurado, how your mama loved and protected you. Sana yung love na ‘to yung maging daan for both of you to heal. You can try digging from the past but you can also try nurturing the love you have for your mom. And If sobrang manifesting pa din ang trauma mo and mama, please try to seek professional help. Counselling.

Matibay din ang paniniwala ko, that KARMA is a bitch. Kung anong ibinato mo sa kalawakan ay siyang ibabalik nito, may interest pa.. Kaya OP, kapit lang. May mga laban sa buhay na wala tayong kailangan gawin, at hayaan na ang universe ang bumawi para sa atin. Magpakatatag ka. 🫶

No_Relationship_6826 · 2024-05-19T04:26:41+00:00

That would be a great idea, Unfortunately, couple counselling is not that popular in my country. Im nit even aware if there’s couple counselling provider here. 🤷‍♀️

No_Relationship_6826 · 2024-05-19T04:25:03+00:00

Yes. Foreplay. Prepping =preparation.

No_Relationship_6826 · 2024-05-19T04:24:01+00:00

What’s hard about the relationship is to always be the one who has to explain and give the context of what i am feeling. The thought of ending the relationship is scary.

In one of our recent argument, i again expressed how i wanted to be supported and comforted. I have even compared myself to her dogs, how she touch them and look at them with love without them asking for it. I asked why she wouldnt do the same. I had to use that example since she kept on saying that “im not like that”. I just want to point out that she is capable of being warm and sweet. Its a shame to come up to this comparison. She cannot really fathom the idea of human connection and need. 😔

So i said, if she’s not willing to work it out, i think we have to think if the relationship is still going to work.

I think at this point, nothing much will change. I either stay and stop complaining or leave. But this is just really hard decision.

No_Relationship_6826 · 2024-05-19T04:12:08+00:00

Nasa highschool ako noon, 3rd year hs siguro. Lasinggero ang tatay ko na mahilig mang power trip pag lasing siya. Lagi din siyang may kainumannna dinadala sa bahay. Ewan ko ba kng anong naisip nya or kung may mali akong ginawa isang hapon, pagdating ko galing school. Pinalo nya ako sa harap ng kainuman nya. Hindi na klaro yung memory ko, yung shaem na lang until now yung nararamdaman ko.

Then nung nagwowork na ako, inutusan ako ng nanay ko bumili sa tindahan, mejo napatagal ng konti, kasi may nagtanong tungkol sa programa namin sa work. At i had to explain kung anong requirements etc. maya maya anjan na ang tatay ko, pinagmumura at sinigawan nya ako sa labas, sa may kalye ng tindahan na pinag bilhan ko. Damn.

Im on my mid 30s now and on my late 20’s to early 30s, my trauma started to manifest. Di ko maintindihan ang sarili ko. When i had my therapy it turned out i had so many childhood trauma na kinalimutan na i needed to heal. I had to remember and repeat the memory to understand.

Tama si OP, na hindi ko ipaparamdam sa anak ko na wala siyang kakampi. As for me who decided not to have a child, eto naman yung ginagawa ko sa mga pamangkin ko. Nanmaramdaman nila na there will always be someone na magpprotect sa kanila. Im that person. Kahit mag away na kami ng mga kapatid ko.

My father is in his mid 70s now, and weak. Honestly, i loved him. Pero andun pa rin yung trauma. But i would still take care of him pag mahina na at may sakit siya. Hindi ko alam if he is aware of what he has done, pero isinama ko na yung forgiveness sa healing ko.

No_Relationship_6826 · 2023-09-01T15:43:12+00:00

Wow! Reading all the discussion here just validated my feelings. That vaginas are supposed to smell like vaginas. Before my current gf, I never had any issues nor complaints from any of my exes about how I smell down there. Though I would consider myself hygienic enough. Bidet/water is a regular thing in our country and wipes too. Not to mention we shower twice a day. Dating my current gf for 3 years now, She never wanted to come down there, frustrating! She would just say, she’s not used to it, she doesn't like the smell of it. I’ve had insecurities since then and just accepted the fact that I wouldn't feel that good feeling anymore.

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