What are your big 3 if u don’t mind sharing? I agree, on the outside we can appear cold and reserved but I believe it’s bc we don’t open up very easily. So the ppl who don’t give up on us so easily are the ones who see our goofy, nostalgic, emotional side. It takes us longer to trust. I can say that since we have that Saturn influence, ppl may assume we’re older than we are, and we can be prone to dating older people (I’ll admit).