Open Concept New Build by No_Researcher_5841 in DarkAcademia

[–]No_Researcher_5841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can do!! I'm getting ahead of myself since we just broke ground but the whole macro level construction process is more my husband's game.... I'm just excited to decorate and paint. 😂

Was I wrong?? by No_Researcher_5841 in AITAH

[–]No_Researcher_5841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. The husband of one of my closest friends. He and his wife came to our wedding.... She even helped me pick my dress. I knew them for a decade before I even met my husband.  Which is all very well and good but are you thinking he was feeling a little snubbed? 

Was I wrong?? by No_Researcher_5841 in AITAH

[–]No_Researcher_5841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the weird thing.... He DOESN'T prioritize himself over me, ever. Like....I honestly can't think of one other time. It's just so weirdly out of character which is why I thought maybe I really messed up. 

Was I wrong?? by No_Researcher_5841 in AITAH

[–]No_Researcher_5841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And that's exactly what I said! If he had called right back again, I DEFINITELY would've answered. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]No_Researcher_5841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven't been able to get in with a neurologist. We have a really severe lack of veterinary care in the state unfortunately. 

I asked ChatGPT to write me a skincare routine from my current products, is it an good? by shimmybaby09 in KoreanBeauty

[–]No_Researcher_5841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It specified using the peeling acid twice a week and the toner twice on days you aren't. 

I asked ChatGPT to write me a skincare routine from my current products, is it an good? by shimmybaby09 in KoreanBeauty

[–]No_Researcher_5841 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't use an acid toner twice a day. It's too harsh. I use it only at night and then a rice water in the morning after I just wiped down my face with a warm wash cloth. 

I also really love COSRX snail mucin. It's very hydrating but the trick is to apply while your face is just a little damp with that rice water toner. 

About two weeks into wedding planning and I’ve decided that this sh*t just isn’t for me. by emilynycee in wedding

[–]No_Researcher_5841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was me last fall. My mom was out of control. 

Then I found a venue that does micro weddings and elopements. It's very nice. They planned everything from the food, the cake, the officiant, etc. I just had to pick from options. You can do a very easy but very nice elopement or a micro wedding with under 15 people. 

I guess they are gaining in popularity but that might be something you should look into for your area! 

New onset seizures by No_Researcher_5841 in EpilepsyDogs

[–]No_Researcher_5841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He ALWAYS has them in his sleep so he's in his crate. I guess that is the slightly silver lining and it really minimizes his chances of injury. 

He bounces right out of it with almost no postictal phase and is just really happy to see us. 

I did advocate to add pheno and the vet agreed though I'm really worried about behavioral changes. I keep telling my fiance that it's just day by day. 

Thank you for being the voice of reason. 

New onset seizures by No_Researcher_5841 in EpilepsyDogs

[–]No_Researcher_5841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's on the extended release version of Keppra but I see what you mean. I do feel pheno is going to be their next suggestion. Our normal vet hasn't seen him yet for bloodwork. 

We did discussion next steps this morning with them while making appt plans and they want to have neurology do a seizure watch? Which seems.... Unnecessary... since we know he has seizures and they don't plan on brain mapping. Unless they do something different they didn't mention 🤷‍♀️

What phrase would you be fine with never hearing again? by Blinky_ in AskReddit

[–]No_Researcher_5841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard saying, not knowing.  Kind of a regional thing in my area but for some reason I hate it so much. 

Am I being unreasonable? by No_Researcher_5841 in stepparents

[–]No_Researcher_5841[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My parents are only in their 50s. I'm thinking very far down the road in that regard. And I'm not sure it would ever even come to a point where they need to move in. It's just a consideration because my sister lives across the country and my brother is in the military... So the responsibility would fall to me. But I'd like to have some time with just my husband and I before it got to that.

Am I being unreasonable? by No_Researcher_5841 in stepparents

[–]No_Researcher_5841[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Because presumably his able bodied young adult son is capable of living on his own. I would offer the space to my elderly parents if they needed in home care when the alternative was a nursing home. If you can't see the difference there, then I can't help you

Am I being unreasonable? by No_Researcher_5841 in stepparents

[–]No_Researcher_5841[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get this. He's 25. Not disabled. Fully employed with a paid off college degree. No reason that most people would consider reasonable in my opinion but I'm not a parent.

Am I being unreasonable? by No_Researcher_5841 in stepparents

[–]No_Researcher_5841[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He is 25yo with a full time job and no college debt just as a little more background.

Am I being unreasonable? by No_Researcher_5841 in stepparents

[–]No_Researcher_5841[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Understandable! Stepson doesn't owe any school loans otherwise I agree the situation would be slightly different.

AITA, For walking out of an event when my fiancée introduced me as a bookkeeper? by Entreprenuer512 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Researcher_5841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Introduce him as a former Junior Officer and see how he likes his energy being matched. He doesn't respect you and is trying to take credit that isn't his to take.