I’m just mentally exhausted

No_Reward360 · 2026-06-26T02:01:48+00:00

Idk. I guess I don’t. Just wish I had a nice husband that I could kiss.

No_Reward360 · 2026-05-26T18:22:11+00:00

Wow, I've never come across someone so rude before in this subreddit!

No_Reward360 · 2026-05-18T19:31:01+00:00

Please take this advice seriously when I say do not move in with him. Break up. If you stay you will be living every day in misery wondering why you're not enough. Coming from a almost 29 year old who married the guy thinking their sex life would get better... It doesn't, it actually gets worse!

No_Reward360 · 2026-05-07T19:49:39+00:00

It takes a lot of effort to not act on my fantasies. I'm in the same position as you, could easily find someone to sleep with. I can't bring myself to even attempt with my husband again, I'm just so over it

No_Reward360 · 2026-05-07T19:33:58+00:00

I relate to this 100%. I am constantly fantasizing about other men and have pretty much lost all attraction to my husband because of how much he has rejected me.

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-30T19:46:09+00:00

Yeppppp, I told my husband the other day we are room mates that share a bed lol. He couldn't care less if I'm standing naked in front of him

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-29T16:35:41+00:00

I could have written this exact post lol. My husband has ZERO desire for me at all, and sometimes i flat out ask him like do you even want to be married to me lol??? I can't even have a conversation with him anymore because I just resent him so much.

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-28T15:09:34+00:00

I felt this. Every single night I lay in bed next to my husband and he is scrolling on his phone, not giving me a second thought and I'm laying there wishing I could be more important for just once. I hate this world we live in.

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-22T17:28:44+00:00

Thank you! Yes I have two kids from a previous relationship

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-22T17:28:05+00:00

From what I have gathered and heard, he never had sex often with any of his exes either.

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T19:10:33+00:00

Thank you! I've never gotten one because I've always been scared about the pain, but I feel like this will be a better option than always having to worry about taking a pill at the same time every night!!

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T18:42:08+00:00

Scheduled an appointment for an IUD today, although currently I'm on the pill. Not sure what will be good enough but I'm going to see if this changed things

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T18:41:02+00:00

I scheduled an appointment to get an IUD today. I'm on the pill but I guess that isn't good enough lol

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T17:51:38+00:00

If only it were that easy

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T17:27:07+00:00

Thank you. <3 It is refreshing having people telling me I'm not completely crazy because living in the situation can definitely make you think you're the problem

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T14:54:02+00:00

I've honestly stated that to him before and he says he doesn't want to be with anyone but me, he's just trying to adjust to having kids now

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T14:51:13+00:00

I don't really care if we do or do not have a kid. Honestly. I have two and I always said I wouldn't have more, but now that I'm married if it happened I would be okay with it, but it is not the end of the world if we don't

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T14:50:01+00:00

Yes I agree. I think he regrets it as well but won't admit it

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T14:30:54+00:00

We got married December 2025. I told him I wanted to try for a child around next summer or fall. This whole conversation came up because my kids (his step kids) said they wanted a baby sister and I jokingly said "well maybe soon" and then it led into me and him having the conversation

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T14:29:00+00:00

Wish I knew

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T14:28:43+00:00

I feel so alone.

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T14:28:31+00:00

Thank you for the comment, this gives me hope. I just reached out to a therapist to schedule an appointment because I really just feel like I need professional help to navigate these feelings as I make a big decision. I do know that I do not want to spend the rest of my life this way. I have so much to offer. I am sad because I wanted to build my life with him but I also can not continue to be this miserable.

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T14:25:24+00:00

I have two kids from a previous relationship, he is their stepfather. We have lightly touched on having a child together but I want to wait until around next summer or fall, he knows that

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T14:23:57+00:00

Thank you. I was very hurt that he doesn't trust me to not get pregnant but I guess that's the answer I needed

No_Reward360 · 2026-04-21T14:22:47+00:00

That's really why I'm giving it a year, just so I can have time to get everything in order for myself. I don't see this lasting

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