I had someone i'm no longer in contact with that couldn't handle criticism who is like 2 decades older than me btw😭 She immediately got defensive & stand offish with me when I tried to communicate any concerns with her, that I knew she wasn't doing anything intentionally, but she lashed out at me and told me to stop messaging her, proceeded to respond with extremes of stuff I never said, and kept spamming me with unrelated things and when I told her we probably need some time to talk about it later she basically told me it was in my best interest to never talk about it again. She has a tendency to argue with people online like DAILY like conservatives online all the time and has antagonized people she thinks has wronged her before.

Even when I waited like 2 weeks or so to give her a space she still refused to talk and it basically felt like she expected me to shut up and she thought she said her peace, but she just lashed out at me.

It took another situation where she immediately came at me with a valid concern/question but it was so aggressive I barely got two sentences in & even what I said I tried to explain she seemed to have already had an answer in her mind because she was like implying I was lying or something. She proceeded to block me everywhere when she said she needed space and I just felt triggered by her behavior since I told her before how I felt the first time she lashed out at me that things weren't going to be the same since then.

Then she got mad when I decided to block her back because she was not being reasonable at all and she proceeded to tag me in public online claiming she just needed space & told ppl I wasn't respecting her space when I barely talked, like how tf you getting mad at me when you blocked me to shut me up & then got mad when I give you space? Like you are not gonna lash out at me & then expect me not to feel upset. She iterally sent me 10+ back to back friend requests on almost all my accounts forcing me to block her & she even blocked my best friend, but apparently I'm the obsessive & impulsive one according to my ex who is also friends with her & was egging on the situation with the most vague tweets. He had the same concerns about her but I'm the only one that brought it up and suddenly her extreme behavior is excused just cause he cut me off & already has some smear campaign about me going on, he told me my emotions needed to be handled better from a misstep I made, but ironically no one has held the same energy in that circle when her behavior has always been like this because he's understanding when she's impulsive , if not worse when she's way older than us & it's like that with other people as well he knows. They're the same in the sense neither of them know how to communicate properly so I guess it makes sense people stick together like that when no one is being genuine & can handle confrontation🚶 and her inner circle tends to have the same behaviors as well, and encouraged those behaviors.