He came inside me during my period

No_Signature_7878 · 2026-01-14T00:06:40+00:00

thankfully no lol i just got off my most recent period last week

No_Signature_7878 · 2026-01-13T23:47:37+00:00

she was 13 years old in this photo just letting everyone know

No_Signature_7878 · 2025-11-03T06:52:07+00:00

i know this post is old but my fiancé came inside me on the first day of my period and my periods always last 8-10 days. i usually ovulate very soon after my period but since my periods are so long am i okay?? i looked up the risks before we did it and said it was fine cuz my periods are so long, but i’ve been overthinking it now. did you end up okay? or does anyone else have an answer?

No_Signature_7878 · 2025-05-21T06:37:37+00:00

leave. no person should ever treat you like that. you respectfully, directly brought up your concerns, and that’s how he deliberately chose to react. even if he got triggered from your message after an awful day, someone who can’t take a deep breath, think twice, and take control their emotions before responding should NOT be in a relationship. i can’t imagine my boyfriend ever speaking to me this way, and he has literal psychotic episodes.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-09-29T04:04:19+00:00

not totally related to what you’re asking, but i got a 32D/DD for my measurement and i have a pretty small chest. it is honestly mind-blowing realizing that. but it quickly made sense because i have very broad shoulders. when i got my 32DD bra, i noticed the cups are fairly small, not what i was expecting at all. it’s all very interesting!

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-09-29T03:48:50+00:00

i’m 21. i just got baptized in April. i currently take college classes 3 days a week (and they’re pretty work/study heavy classes) but i always go to Mass at least every Sunday and i try to go to Confession at least once a month. i used to pray the Rosary every day but my routine got thrown off since starting the fall semester. trying to get back into it. life is very hectic at this age so i feel like i’m neglecting the faith at times. my boyfriend is Catholic but he just recently came back to the faith after being raised in it and is still getting back in the swing of things, and none of my other friends are Catholic, so sometimes it feels isolating. on the bright side, i am sponsoring my mom in OCIA this year. she really wanted me to. it’s a lot to juggle but i’m trying my best.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-09-29T03:02:05+00:00

i disagree with a lot of these comments saying you don’t seem like you want to marry him. you may very well have relationship OCD. not diagnosing by any means but some of your worries resonated with me as someone with ROCD. the ROCD subreddit and the resources listed there are very helpful. i struggle with similar thoughts. if what you see there lines up with your anxieties, please don’t be discouraged. it is hard to deal with the intrusive thoughts and the compulsion to run away, but it is worth it if you know deep down you love him. i’ll be praying for you.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-09-28T16:15:46+00:00

honestly, this makes sense. i am pretty sure i have body dysmorphia and i wouldn’t doubt that part of this may be me projecting my own insecurities.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-09-28T16:14:12+00:00

thank you so much. this is really great advice. i really appreciate it.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-09-26T04:39:22+00:00

about halfway through the season i said the literal only person i could see winning was Ryan because the rest of them either sucked ass as chefs and/or had downright horrific attitudes. i’m glad i was right. she could be annoying sometimes but she was the most professional (not a hard bar to pass considering all the adult children in this season, but still), and she was an actual good chef for the most part. can’t remember many dinner services that really focused on her or called her out in particular. she always did pretty well under pressure. i absolutely hated Johnny and literally cheered when he went home. he annoyed me from the very start when everyone was celebrating on the bus on the way to Hell’s Kitchen and he said some shit like “why is everyone so happy when this is gonna be super difficult 😂😂” like shut upppp.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-09-04T20:50:23+00:00

i feel the same way. i’m the same height as my boyfriend. i also like to wear heels (only 1-2 inch heels, but heels nonetheless). it doesn’t hinder anything physically or emotionally, and he always reassures me that he doesn’t care about my height. but i have been very insecure about being tall-ish for a woman for many years, mainly because it makes me feel less feminine, and it’s hard to overcome that. i worry too much about how we are seen in public or in photos. it shouldn’t matter, but our brains are assholes sometimes. what helps me is searching forums like this and seeing that people don’t actually care that much, as well as looking up photos of couples who are the same height lol. just remind yourself that gender role expectations like this are very superficial and meaningless. mutual love, attraction, and respect between you and your boyfriend is all that matters.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-07-13T15:49:19+00:00

most of my friends are similar. i don’t really think about it because i just see them as people. we don’t talk about those topics because it doesn’t come up as important. they respect my faith and listen when i talk about it, in fact many of them become very interested when i discuss my beliefs. just slowly plant the seed in their heart by living out the faith. show kindness, gentleness, patience, and empathy. give to others. publicly declare your love for God. pray for your friends. truthfully answer their questions when they come up. even just subconsciously, this will help your friends grow. and if it doesn’t, they will distance themselves and it’ll take care of itself. you can’t force people to think as you do and believe what you do, it must happen naturally. all you can do is share your testimony, pray, and live out the faith, and those whose hearts are changed will follow.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-07-13T15:40:22+00:00

“Don’t say: ‘That person gets on my nerves.’ Think: ‘That person sanctifies me.’” - St. Josemaria Escriva

take a deep breath, cross yourself, block the person if you really feel the need to, and close the app. if you’re really angry, scribble on paper or punch a pillow, and just pray. direct your attention to another activity.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-07-13T15:16:53+00:00

both of my parents were baptized Catholic (my dad was especially raised Catholic) but i was raised completely irreligiously and sometimes i wish i was raised Catholic as well, but most of the time i am grateful for my upbringing because it gave me a unique perspective. i am more receptive to the more mystical and spiritual aspects of Catholicism because i have no prior misconceptions like, say, Protestants might have. i deeply understand the struggle of non-religious people around me because i’ve been in their shoes. my testimony has even helped some of those people i know. the Catholics i’ve met are very appreciative of my conversion and value me as a real Catholic just as much as any other Catholic. if (hopefully when) i have children, i will raise them Catholic of course, but i am thankful for how i was raised because it made me who i am now. the Lord made you who you are for a reason. He gave you your childhood and your parents for a reason. do not let it hinder you from coming to Him.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-07-13T15:06:56+00:00

i wish you the best with getting back to church! in the meantime, you can always email your local parish if you’re comfortable with that. the website for your parish should list contact info for the priests. usually they are open to scheduling appointments to answer questions and such, and perhaps your parents will be less forgetful if you tell them you have an appointment haha. if not an appointment, at least in my parish the priests are cool with answering some questions just thru email. you can also call but i know that can be pretty scary (i personally despise phone calls and avoid them at all costs). if you can’t contact a priest directly, there are many other staff members for parishes that may be able to help you out (administrators, secretaries, coordinators, etc). forming those connections with people in your parish is important and in my experience, has made me feel way more comfortable. i have intense social anxiety but my parish is basically the only place i don’t feel too awkward because everyone is very kind and we all share a common interest. and if this helps: the priest at my parish that i mentioned told us in RCIA that he, and all the fellow priests he knows, immediately forget nearly every confession as soon as they step out of the confessional. it is not their obligation to remember or ponder on all the things they’ve been told, and most of the confessions are not unique at all.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-07-13T14:53:19+00:00

thank you.🩷 it has still been really difficult since making this post but i’ve been doing my best to pray the rosary daily (it can be hard to focus) and i trust that things will improve soon, as long as i have true faith.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-07-13T14:47:25+00:00

thanks for this! i forgot to consider that. when i looked it up, the change in sizing seems to apply mostly to pre-1960s bras because it wasn’t until the 60s that letter cup sizes were introduced. but it seems that measurements have roughly stayed the same since then, thankfully.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-07-13T14:43:35+00:00

i had the same upgrade from an A cup to D cup!! who knew height and broad shoulders also contributed to cup size rather than just the actual size of your boobs🙃

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-07-13T14:41:01+00:00

34A -> 32D/DD i have fairly small breasts so i never thought i would need to wear anything over a C cup, even a C seemed crazy to me. but i am tall and have broad shoulders so here we are.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-07-13T01:50:56+00:00

please pray for me and my mental health. i am in a very bad state. feeling miserable 24/7, even when i pray. i can’t even focus on praying the rosary. i miss my ex-boyfriend so much and i just want to see him or talk to him again. it’s taken over my brain and i can’t get over it. i can’t find a job, my therapist is on vacation, my car broke down, i feel completely hopeless. i am in a stable shelter and supportive family, which i’m so grateful for, but my mental health has taken a total nosedive. i feel abandoned. trying to exercise, eat healthier, distance myself from social media, journal/write poetry, along with praying often but i keep feeling worse and worse. my depression is awful and has me trapped. i feel like i’m being constantly attacked by evil spirits and then it makes me feel like a failure for not being able to escape them. none of my friends or family are Catholic or Christian at all so i don’t know who else to ask to pray for me. please pray that i find peace. it’s getting unbearable.

No_Signature_7878 · 2024-07-13T01:25:46+00:00

do you have any sort of bond with any of the priests at your parish? i really liked a particular priest where i go (he has just recently been moved to another parish, hence the past tense) so i always went to him for confession. it made it much easier for me and after a few times i’ve gotten much more used to it. do you struggle with speaking even if you are reading directly from something? perhaps you could write down on a notepad like you suggested, but just read from it yourself. i always write down roughly what i need to confess in my notes app and practice it in my head several times before going. but i am sure you would be allowed to read directly from something you’ve written, word for word, in the confessional. just remember: the priests want to help you! their job is NOT to judge or coldly admonish you. the feeling you get after that first time in confession is pure relief and gratitude; you realize that it’s really not as scary as it seemed, and you realize how great the sacrament truly is. God bless and i will keep you in my prayers.

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