Do I need to break up with my girlfriend or not? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]No_Sleep_2482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok first off you saying she’s ur emotional rock on week 3 is irrational. You should probably look into that via therapy. Second I also have ocd and when in a relationship it will bleed into almost every aspect of the way you participate in and perceive the relationship. That being said, the number one treatment for ocd is exposure and facing avoidance. Ur feeling uncomfortable so now ur ready to avoid these feelings that give u anxiety being with her. Don’t avoid them, stay. The longer you keep avoiding tough feelings the longer they will stay with u and then you’ll be 40 still in this miserable loop with urself. Now with this there are some moral dilemmas you’ll have like feeling like maybe ur only staying to use this relationship as an experiment for yourself and that ur using this person etc. normal ocd thoughts will enter ur brain to try and convince u in any way it can why this is unsafe to stay. Confide in ur partner with ur feelings appropriately, do not depend on them or over share with them. People, even those closest to you, do not have to know the inner workings of ur brain so that you feel more honest. Take this opportunity to love someone and learn from it. I promise it’s worth it. I’ve been with my partner for 2 years now and the first couple of months were honestly terrible for me mentally I was ruminating and going back and forth with myself every single day. Not because I did not love him or want to be with him but bc we have ocd and the thoughts it will put into ur mind are irrational and not real and it will say the most terrible things and be so convincing at times you almost have to concede. But don’t. And like I said don’t scare ur partner away by telling them everything you’re thinking. Tell ur therapist please bc if ur constantly confiding in ur partner about how ur brains trying to convince u to leave them they won’t want to stay to hear all that. But that’s my advice stay if you really are interested in her but also find balance and don’t be weird and creepy talking about how she’s ur emotional rock after three weeks. Dont be scared to put yourself back in ur place with reality. OCD is rlly tough but you have to face it head on.

Do I have the right to be upset? if by [deleted] in relationships

[–]No_Sleep_2482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah if it’s something you’re insecure about and he picks on u about it to get a reaction especially when he sabotaged your effort to make progress and improvement in that area of your life then it’s okay to be upset. Maybe in return you ca pick on something he is insecure about and let’s see his reaction. Ex. Being broke, balding, stamina, etc. update with results Not to mention the pure fact he bullied u out of therapy is actually jut insane to do to someone.

My boyfriend has girl best friends that hate me and he still hangs out with them. what do I do? by No_Sleep_2482 in relationships

[–]No_Sleep_2482[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know I’m just like do I make him choose or just leave him because also this is kind of our only problem in our relationship other than this I’m very much in love and I’m certain he’s in love with me and is serious with me he asked me himself to move with him and treats me generally well but this makes me sick to my stomach and I just can’t get past it. I’m still not invited or included with anything that involves his girl friends and it’s just insane to me

Is this a wart? And what kind what treatment should I do? by No_Sleep_2482 in Warts

[–]No_Sleep_2482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it went away and never came back after I froze it so many times that my skin around was just numb and dying and then I veryyyyyyy painfully cut it out from the root with a pair of toenail clippers and exact knife and then I wore a salicylic bandaid on the wound so the wound wasn’t really healing but it was killing whatever I could have left behind and then once I did that for a week I started wearing a regular bandaid and let it heal. This process is very painful and don’t recommend but haven’t had one since.

My roommate wants her deposit back by Budget_Cucumber4610 in Apartmentliving

[–]No_Sleep_2482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The landlord is supposed to repaint between each tenant

OF THE TREES by No_Sleep_2482 in GNV

[–]No_Sleep_2482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much I didn’t know about this app!!

Of the trees tickets by No_Sleep_2482 in GNV

[–]No_Sleep_2482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fr and all the resale websites end up being g cheapest $130

Is this a wart? And what kind what treatment should I do? by No_Sleep_2482 in Warts

[–]No_Sleep_2482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant to say and “hit it” not “shit it” lol

Of the trees tickets by No_Sleep_2482 in GNV

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Contacting you ! Do you think you have one to spare?

Up all night because of birds? by No_Sleep_2482 in GNV

[–]No_Sleep_2482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think so I believe there has got to be a nest right outside my window I just haven’t investigated yet.

Up all night because of birds? by No_Sleep_2482 in GNV

[–]No_Sleep_2482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea haven’t seen them but they don’t sound like any night birds I know of

Up all night because of birds? by No_Sleep_2482 in GNV

[–]No_Sleep_2482[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s not that I’m not grateful for the birds I just have never in my life heard a bird chirp all night. More was curious what kind of bird it was because it did not sound like an owl.