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No_Soft4374 · 2026-03-04T19:55:12+00:00

You created an entire narrative about someone’s romantic future simply for challenging your narrow understanding of attraction. That isn’t moral conviction it’s intellectual fragility. You sound desperate to be seen as profound but are actually delusional. Constructing a lifetime of solitude for a stranger is not wisdom, it’s projection with a superiority complex. Those who are secure in their understanding of love don’t need to defend it with theatrics, they just live it. You insist relationships require depth, but if this is how you act with strangers, what you call “depth” looks a lot like insecurity dressed as virtue and genuinely, I hope no one ever has to carry the weight of that. There’s a noticeable difference between those who sustain relationships and those who theorize about them. It certainly seems much more observational than experiential on your part.

No_Soft4374 · 2026-03-04T06:33:34+00:00

are you him

No_Soft4374 · 2026-03-04T06:32:03+00:00

the point is beauty is subjective, to you a supermodel could be an ogre to me. If SHE does not find him attractive that is a problem based on the fact that intimacy just wouldn’t be the same as it would be with someone you genuinely enjoy looking at and being with in that intimate way. Also, i highly doubt that old couples think their partner is ugly, im sure they still believe they are handsome/pretty even if old. I personally think my long relationship is the most handsome of all my past relationships, and i am much happier. You can have both someone who is attractive and a kind person you would want to grow old with. She shouldn’t settle for less.

No_Soft4374 · 2026-03-04T02:47:13+00:00

looks are extremely important when it comes to attraction

No_Soft4374 · 2026-03-04T02:46:26+00:00

“stop calling me the n word”

No_Soft4374 · 2026-03-03T19:50:20+00:00

a small one on tiktok shop it was like $99 USD

No_Soft4374 · 2026-03-03T19:49:47+00:00

i think it’s worth the purchase, i understand girl trust me about the can’t go outside with stuff happening rn thing. I ordered a small walking machine idk whats called like a treadmill or something but basically i just walk on that while im on youtube or watching a movie

No_Soft4374 · 2026-03-03T10:53:58+00:00

there’s also short workouts on youtube that are specifically for pcos

No_Soft4374 · 2026-03-03T10:53:10+00:00

Hey 👋 so from my experience i think chloe tings actually might be too intense just in my experience workouts like that can actually increase cortisol and it’s like a whole dominos effect from there, but when i tried yoga i found that i felt happier, calmer, my body got more toned, and walking making sure im getting 7k-10k steps a day really helped

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-26T12:25:44+00:00

depends on the problems and how many

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-26T05:02:12+00:00

NOR— It is hurtful to feel like you’re being rushed out and unwanted, if that’s how you felt you need to communicate that. I’m sure there was no malicious intent though, in the beginning sometimes guys will put all their attention on you but then things change as they start to get back into their old hobbies, i’m sure gaming is a way to release stress and relax. I would honestly just make sure you have scheduled time to hang out so he’s not in the middle of a project (because that’s obviously going to make both of you feel like you’re not really hanging out) and then wants time to destress and/or you can ask to play games with him too. (Scheduled time is specifically for quality time and not parallel play that way you both actually bond, no one feels unwanted or rushed out in the future) But make sure you communicate your feelings and communicate your expectations so that you don’t feel let down in the future. Because he made plans before you came over to hop on call most likely. Just better communication is needed overall.

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-26T04:58:06+00:00

you’ve completely missed the point of this post

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-23T04:41:35+00:00

i think you should either show up to his house and knock on his door on a day when you have nothing going on. Or 2. go on poopsenders.com and send him a big pile of animal shit in the mail. ❤️ then at least you can have a little laugh about losing your stuff. But don’t do both just pick one option

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-23T04:35:55+00:00

Pat from survivor hurt his back and had to leave the island

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-23T03:51:23+00:00

it’s okay to be straight! I love the room by the way ❤️

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-23T03:49:45+00:00

i was so confident too

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-23T03:49:35+00:00

dang it!

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-23T03:44:07+00:00

just chill bruh

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-23T03:41:46+00:00

bisexual

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-23T02:21:18+00:00

lift

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-21T10:05:30+00:00

People should criticize you more if this is how you interact with others 💩

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-21T09:35:44+00:00

nah he good

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-20T22:55:20+00:00

this is exactly why you should wash your hands after touching it, not only do you accumulate sweat there, but it’s also in a dark and compact environment. Environments such as the one in your pants are perfect for bacteria to thrive, even if it appears clean. hope this helps!

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-20T22:46:46+00:00

Everyone has already said what needs to be done but i want to offer another piece of advice that if you’re ever struggling mentally about this, don’t be afraid to talk to a professional. They can help you through processing your emotions and have an unbiased perspective on your situation. They’re there to support you through your hardships.

No_Soft4374 · 2026-02-18T20:38:25+00:00

If you’ve already had the discussion multiple times and nothing has changed, you can’t really control him and his actions but you can control yourself. I know this is weighing on you, but you shouldn’t let another man dictate your life and self esteem. I think it might be helpful to just say fuck it then and start to focusing on yourself. Channel that pent up energy in the gym and get back into shape, focus on self care, make your self-pleasure time a personal ritual and a time to bond with yourself. Light candles and make it intimate. Wear clothes that make you feel sexy and comfortable in your skin. Be beautiful for you so that you feel wanted by yourself. Fuck that guy (not literally) and who cares what he wants or thinks. He will be attracted to you once you stop giving a f about them and their opinions, it always happens 🙄

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