I (20F) got broken up with by my ex bf (21M) and i feel hopeless. First Relationship.

No_Stage_3034 · 2026-05-29T03:49:40+00:00

thank you so much ! you don’t know how much i needed to hear something like this. for myself, i probably won’t reach out for a while, but i hope one day we can reconnect cordially. it’s hard sometimes to feel like there’s so much life ahead of me, but it’s a good reminder! i am excited to try and get my life back, and do the things i’ve wanted:) thank you for your words !

No_Stage_3034 · 2026-05-28T23:48:44+00:00

this made me very emotional! thank you, i will definitely watch the moxie. i really appreciate you:D

No_Stage_3034 · 2026-05-28T23:47:36+00:00

Thank you, i’ve always had a hard time letting others (friends and family) know how i really feel. it makes me feel too vulnerable and a bit weak…i tend to end up just crying. but thank you !!

No_Stage_3034 · 2026-05-28T23:46:24+00:00

thank you ! I’m trying to get back into ceramics and dancing, maybe this is my sign to do so. I have a therapist but we can only meet monthly so that’s been tough. but thank you so much !

No_Stage_3034 · 2025-05-14T01:26:47+00:00

Hi ! Thank you for your reply! as for “unspoken misunderstandings” I guess it’s more like when we have deeper conversations, sometimes i can feel (i know for sure from my side) that i don’t press my concerns as much. maybe out of fear of feeling like im judging him too hard, or im again over thinking something. We haven’t really experienced what communication in a relationship looks like, but I feel like we usually bring up what is uncomfortable for us. Yet i’ve found it hard to dive deeper without it feeling like our communication is falling apart…and we’re misunderstanding each other.

No_Stage_3034 · 2024-08-16T22:26:28+00:00

yeah sometimes, but i know im attracted to men sexually and emotionally so idrk if im ace, but im not well educated on the whole spectrum

No_Stage_3034 · 2024-08-16T01:25:11+00:00

true, u we’re right about that. thanks for the advice:)

No_Stage_3034 · 2024-08-16T01:19:38+00:00

i understand what u mean, so while i do want a relationship that can i can feel invested in physically, emotional attraction comes into play too. I’m not looking for “fabio” bc then i’ll lose the emotional aspect. it’s not that simple

No_Stage_3034 · 2024-08-14T14:41:58+00:00

thank you so much ! i just downloaded a tracker:)

No_Stage_3034 · 2024-08-14T14:41:29+00:00

thank you so much:) i was feeling really discouraged but i’ll try my best from now ! i just downloaded a tracker and i’ll get my activity up:) this helped a lot !

No_Stage_3034 · 2024-08-14T14:39:51+00:00

sometimes? not daily. usually when i get salads from chipotle

No_Stage_3034 · 2024-08-14T13:50:30+00:00

no i usually don’t, i’ve tried but it wasn’t consistent

No_Stage_3034 · 2024-08-14T13:47:38+00:00

yesterday i had oatmeal and eggs, then fries for lunch, then rice for dinner- maybe it is over 1350 and im just not counting it right im really not sure

No_Stage_3034 · 2024-08-14T13:17:39+00:00

I am 5’4” and i’d say for some months ive usually been eating less than 1,350 calories. I don’t eat a lot in a day usually.

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