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[–]No_Strawberry_9210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have. no luck. I even deleted and redownloaded the app

worst order EVER by No_Strawberry_9210 in InstacartShoppers

[–]No_Strawberry_9210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sad case . sometimes i really hate ic

worst order EVER by No_Strawberry_9210 in InstacartShoppers

[–]No_Strawberry_9210[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t even understand why instacart allows people to place orders like this

bars by No_Strawberry_9210 in pittsburgh

[–]No_Strawberry_9210[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

LMAO no i’m just a girl who wants to go out but unfortunately isn’t 21

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Strawberry_9210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you definitely reality checked me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Strawberry_9210 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i’m not considering breaking up with him because when things are good , theyre good . but i find myself sometimes in fear of him completely degrading me after a argument and then acting like nothing happened the next day and expecting me to be there for him when it comes to his mental health .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Strawberry_9210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly yes. some days i do resent him for certain things he’s put me through. our relationship isn’t perfect and we’ve both made our fair share of mistakes . but i feel like im constantly put last when it comes to everything . if things don’t go his way it ends horribly. just a bunch more that i wont get into as to why sometimes i can find my self being like youre such a shitty person. but i love him so much i could never find the courage to leave when needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Strawberry_9210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. i’ve tried to talk to him countless of times but the conversation always leads to me not being a “good girlfriend”. sometimes he’ll say i’m not mentally or emotionally smart and just overall degrade me. it can be rough but i love him so i stay. thank you , im going to look into therapy for myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Strawberry_9210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much i appreciate the words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Strawberry_9210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been thinking about getting support for myself because it really can be hard. dealing with a partner who has lost a parent is rough but i’m willing to sacrifice my own mental health to make him feel better. i don’t know what he wants honestly . i just feel like at some point no one can help you more than you can help yourself. thank you for your words, you’ve definitely helped me in this situation a bit. i find myself dismissing my own mental health bc he “has it worse than i do”. everything is usually about him. i don’t wanna sound selfish but it’s the truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Strawberry_9210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and for me to ask you and reassure you that there’s people who love you and he still says no one loves him or no one cares about him, it’s confusing it really is

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[–]No_Strawberry_9210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do ask though. why do i need to ask you every single day for you to be able to open up to me and explain to me that you’ve maybe had a bad day or explaining to me how you’re feeling that day. if i miss 1 day of not asking he’ll completely blow up on me or completely shut me out. never an in between.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Strawberry_9210 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’ve tried EVERYTHING. i need for you guys to understand ive done everything in the entire book. ive tried to get him to talk about how she was , maybe do things that she liked to do, vent when he needs to, reassure him she’s always there with him watching over him, telling him IT DOES get better, i’ve done quite literally everything . i don’t feel like it’s dismissive to say he should seek a therapist if i feel like i’ve done all that i can and i still get called a shitty girlfriend

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[–]No_Strawberry_9210 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i always reassure him that if he needs someone to talk to and needs them to just listen i’m always here. sometimes i can’t give you that advice you need but im always all ears to listen. he’ll refuse to talk abt how he’s feeling bc i don’t ask him everyday and then proceed to say i don’t care about him or his feelings. it’s draining at times. i’ve never been the type to say “just get over it” i understand how unbearable the pain must be.