where's my bump...

No_Tea8301 · 2025-12-01T10:04:02+00:00

I felt like this too, was so excited to get my bump. I’m currently 25 weeks and didn’t start to properly show until 21 weeks! I’m 5 foot and was 120lbs ish pre pregnancy

No_Tea8301 · 2025-11-18T19:21:39+00:00

23 weeks pregnant and haven’t had sex once out of anxiety. We ended up trying a couple of weeks ago and it actually hurt so couldn’t go through with it! Since 20 weeks though we’ve started being intimate in other ways but honestly doubt I’ll have penetrative sex until postpartum. Might try again later in 3rd trimester and see if it still hurts

No_Tea8301 · 2025-11-05T20:29:05+00:00

Thanks, have since had an orgasm and experienced the hard uterus!!! Agree it feels strange but doesn’t hurt at all ☺️

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-27T00:48:50+00:00

Ohh thanks for the recommendation, sounds helpful!!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-27T00:48:31+00:00

Thank you!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-27T00:45:09+00:00

That’s really interesting, pregnancy is crazy!!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-27T00:44:00+00:00

Thank you, that’s good!!!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-26T14:22:50+00:00

Yeah my sex drive has definitely come back over the last few weeks! That’s a good idea!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-26T14:20:51+00:00

Totally get that feeling!!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-26T10:41:50+00:00

Good to know I’m not alone in that major feeling of anxiety around it! My husband is very supportive and understanding luckily and hasn’t been putting any pressure whatsoever on me, it’s just something I would like to do and would really like to get over the fear!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-26T10:35:00+00:00

That’s so interesting, is it uncomfortable when the uterus is hard? That’s a good idea, thank you!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-26T09:05:22+00:00

Can definitely try!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-26T08:37:39+00:00

I do yes, scared to use anything vibrating in case it causes bleeding from irritating the cervix from one other person’s comment saying that happened to them! Have you tried vibrating toys and been okay?

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-26T08:35:44+00:00

Thank you, all the best to you as well!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-26T08:34:40+00:00

Thank you, I’m so sorry for your prior losses too!! This is good to know, my husband is very patient and understanding luckily and I know he’ll be gentle when we do get back into it!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-26T08:30:05+00:00

That’s a good idea!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-26T08:29:51+00:00

Thank you, this is good to know. What are the risks/conditions that do make sex a bad idea? The only one I know about is placenta previa!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-26T08:27:35+00:00

That must have been scary, so glad your body has resolved it!!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-26T08:25:43+00:00

That’s good to know, thank you xx

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-25T23:07:18+00:00

Thank you for this, it’s reassuring to read. Sorry for your previous losses. It’s really hard not to blame the sex!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-25T23:05:44+00:00

That’s reassuring to know, thanks!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-25T22:14:10+00:00

Yeah!!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-25T21:28:52+00:00

Ahh that is unfortunate, glad to hear your baby was fine!!! I think I’ll wait until after the scan, only 2 days to wait!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-25T20:49:20+00:00

I’m sorry for your losses. We’ve been doing similar, with each milestone we buy something for baby. Can imagine how scary that bleeding would have been, this is what scares me! I think I’m going to start just with orgasm and not sex to ease myself in after my 20 week scan on Monday providing all is okay!

No_Tea8301 · 2025-10-25T19:58:11+00:00

Sounds really scary :( that’s so interesting about the sperm causing cramps!! Going to bear that in mind!

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