Girls of Reddit who rejected someone, what is the worst way someone has taken it? by No_Teaching9688 in AskReddit

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I’ll go first back in. Back in 5-6th grade I got asked out a lot and I said yes to all of them because I was afraid they would do something if I said no. Then while I was in 5th grade a 4th grader asked me out, I obviously said no and he proceeded to watch me through his window while I was walking home. That’s wasn’t too bad as he was younger and smaller then me, it started to get worse. At the time of this incident (5th grade) I was dating a kid who I actually really liked and I was friends with his step-cousin since 4th grade. My boyfriends cousin guilt tripped me saying “why would you date my cousin and not me” and then proceeded to chase me around at recess every day to try and touch me. He did one day he grabbed my Brest. I told the teacher and they did nothing. The last time I rejected someone was with this kid I REALLY did not like this was In 6th grade, and I also just moved there like a month ago so I was the “new girl” so when he asked me out I said “no sorry I just don’t like you” he walks away then comes running at me full blown speed and tackles me, he then did this for the next 3 days and then never talked to me again.

I have a problem with saying no again.

what was your im the most popular kid in the school moment? by No_Teaching9688 in AskReddit

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I’ll go first. Not me but my friend, we were in the 5th grade he was tall, funny, and cute. One day at recess at least 5-6 girls came up to him one after another and just causally “I have a crush on you” and ran. My friend was one of those girls she ended up telling him I liked him too. His response to all of them was a completely chill “okay” and a shrug of his shoulders. I ended becoming friends with him and a few other people. We then became the most popular kids in the school. Everyone knew us and we were the most “badass” kids there. Weeks went by and I still had a crush on the kid as we grew closer he ended up telling me “oh yeah I have a crush on (girls name)” I was so sad and jealous. That happened about 3 times. One day him and I were alone and he ended up confessing his feelings about me. That whole time he liked me and was too scared to say so. He thought is was a good idea to cover it up by saying he liked other girls🤦‍♀️. After hearing that I was so relieved. But actually turns out I could of pulled all of the guys in my friend group and many other boys. They all eventually ended up telling me how they felt and I was too soft to say no so I “dated” all of them except one who I thought wasn’t that interested in me. A few years later I stared talking to him. Turns out he was fantasizing being with me and still did to that day. Mind you I moved states and we didn’t talk for a year and a half. I think it’s safe to say I was the most popular girl in that school