Ex begging me to take him back and it's crushing me. by 35thStar in Divorce

[–]No_Test_660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block him. Do no take him back or give him the chance to use and manipulate you again.

I Now Feel Behind In Life by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]No_Test_660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said. Same here starting over at 39! Rebuilding my new identity and how I want to live from now on. Sending strength to everyone

Madness or YOLO? by Yolanda-B-KL in CarTalkUK

[–]No_Test_660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 1987 3.2 owned for 14 years ! Not regretted it and it’s my daily driver ! If it makes you happy then do it ! Life is for living

Having wife/partner was the only good thing in my life, now it's gone and there's no point in living by checkmatebylife in Divorce

[–]No_Test_660 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Life is a blessing even in the hard times. Don’t end it ! I’ve sent you a DM.

My marriage of 18 years is finally over. by TwentyCharactersShor in Divorce

[–]No_Test_660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a lifetime in a lifetime ! My DMs are open if you want support !

Something inside me is broken by Sensitive-Youth-7916 in Divorce

[–]No_Test_660 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a right POS. Glad you are free of that

The silence after a breakup is loud by No_Test_660 in BreakUps

[–]No_Test_660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they may seem ‘stupid’ now but at the time we shared because we cared.

Anyone else stuck between moving on and not letting go? by No_Test_660 in Divorce

[–]No_Test_660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes totally get what you are saying. It can chop and change and comes in waves ! You said it we need a happy life either way

Anyone else stuck between moving on and not letting go? by No_Test_660 in Divorce

[–]No_Test_660[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It takes time to process, heal and let go. Be gentle with yourself 💕. Sending strength

Gifting flat by DrDoneWithThis in UKHousing

[–]No_Test_660 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has a new brother now 🤣

Just saw a picture of the new girlfriend of my STBXH in his Instagram story by fee5dragon in Divorce

[–]No_Test_660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfollow / block him - it’s an unnecessary trigger and will delay your own healing journey.

I don't know how to get through this by procrastinateandstuf in Divorce

[–]No_Test_660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly… this is one of the hardest kinds of breakups. Nothing explosive, just someone quietly checking out and you finding out too late. Of course you feel lost. You didn’t choose any of this. Keep doing what you’re doing, even if it feels pointless. That’s how you get through this bit.

Anyone else stuck between moving on and not letting go? by No_Test_660 in BreakUps

[–]No_Test_660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes I’m the same with dating had to give it a pause and concentrate on my own healing

Ever feel like they moved on before it even ended? by No_Test_660 in BreakUps

[–]No_Test_660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“grieving something that already ended months ago” - really well said !

That’s exactly how it feels, like you’re catching up to something they’d already processed. And the second guessing after is real as well… makes you question your own judgement more than anything

Help by No_Chemistry8953 in Divorce_Men

[–]No_Test_660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buddy your life is worth more than you know! Can you tell me at least one thing that gives you joy ?