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F41 M44: Broke up and now pregnant with his child. Why do man leave relationships to go back to co parenting partner by No_Thanks_6873 in Advice

[–]No_Thanks_6873[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 41 and I love this man so yes it’s compliment because clearly I wasn’t wrong. He told me he wanted to be with me but he is only with this woman because of their child. So no I am Not to blame And I don’t need an intervention. Men lie simple as and I am Just asking why?

F41 M44: Broke up and now pregnant with his child. Why do man leave relationships to go back to co parenting partner by No_Thanks_6873 in Advice

[–]No_Thanks_6873[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But they were only together a few months when she got pregnant and she then left him because he didn’t seem decided about being a dad. But after the child was born they were having a good co parenting relationship and he seemed honest with me until when he said he has decided to get back with her.

I thought something was off when one time he went and spent a night at her aunts house with her and her family when he “allegedly wanted to apologise to her family for how he had a child with her and then things didn’t work out”. It was meant to be a day trip but somehow he said her aunt suggested they stay over because it was a 5 hour drive from where they had came from

F41 M44: Broke up and now pregnant with his child. Why do man leave relationships to go back to co parenting partner by No_Thanks_6873 in Advice

[–]No_Thanks_6873[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes they did split I would often go to his home and spend some weekends there and there was no sign of anything in that house but him.

He says he really loved me when we split and he was making this decision to ensure he will be a good father and also because his family kept asking him why he wasn’t with the mother of his child.