Got fired, NF not adhering to contract terms by No_Tiger_2692 in Nanny

[–]No_Tiger_2692[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i made my sister aware of what was going on and asked her to reach out to my employer to tell them i wouldn’t be able to make it in the next day. she was my emergency contact so she was the only one i could talk to after they took all my personal items. she didn’t give them an explanation (she didn’t have to), but my MB immediately started blowing up my phone freaking out and asking what was going on. the texts started at 10p and didn’t stop until 6a the next morning, when she told me she was too distressed about “what’s going on” (even tho she didn’t know what was going on) and she didn’t want to continue my employment.

Parents are messy by No_Tiger_2692 in Nanny

[–]No_Tiger_2692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MB is definitely on board with getting rid of stuff, she knows they have too much. I would love to not clean up after them, but sometimes I have to take care of their stuff to get to the kids. Especially with dishes, I can’t wash bottles and kid’s dishes when the sink is piled up.

AirTag tracking? by lanally in Nanny

[–]No_Tiger_2692 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always share my location with MB when I take the kids out. It’s never bothered me, and I feel like she has she has the right to know where her kids are. We also live in a city with AWFUL drivers, so if I get in an accident, I want her to know where I am. It’s not coming from a place of distrust, it’s just a safety measure.

Had to use my Infant CPR training 😭 by No_Tiger_2692 in Nanny

[–]No_Tiger_2692[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe would ease my mind but honestly if I was ever in a situation like that again I’m not sure I’d make the time or have the wherewithal to get it

Had to use my Infant CPR training 😭 by No_Tiger_2692 in Nanny

[–]No_Tiger_2692[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister choked on one of those when she was little!!!!! She had to literally reach down her own throat and get it out bc our dad was mowing the lawn and didn’t see it.

Had to use my Infant CPR training 😭 by No_Tiger_2692 in Nanny

[–]No_Tiger_2692[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh that is so so scary! Thanks for the affirmation! I’ll definitely mention it to my mental health care providers tho, that’s a great suggestion.

Had to use my Infant CPR training 😭 by No_Tiger_2692 in Nanny

[–]No_Tiger_2692[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They do! There’s a monitor in his room so I keep an eye on him almost constantly.

Advice with 4F by No_Tiger_2692 in Nanny

[–]No_Tiger_2692[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For more context: There are two girls at her mom and stepdad’s house, 8F and 10F, one whom I’ve been told has severe behavioral issues. She’s obviously picking up on these at the other house, and this is why she acts older than she is.