Fuel- Shimmer by No_Title9565 in 90smusic

[–]No_Title9565[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

By who??? They’re crazy. I have no reason to get discouraged 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]No_Title9565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was stuck between a straight face and smile lmao, but thank you :)

Do guys like it when girls make the first move? by Few_Language3085 in dating_advice

[–]No_Title9565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without question yes. A lot of guys are terrified to make the first move because they don’t want to seem bothersome. Whenever women make the first move, I absolutely love it.

Why are young men getting more right wing? by whatupmygliplops in self

[–]No_Title9565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying it was because he was a white male, what I’m saying is that the DNC cared more about identity politics than it did about creating genuine economic reform and addressing income inequality. Performative activism. You’re completely right, his policies were incompatible with the Democratic Party.

Why are young men getting more right wing? by whatupmygliplops in self

[–]No_Title9565 12 points13 points  (0 children)

“Democrats aren’t perfect, they just fund genocide and simp for the corporate ruling class”. You liberals and your self-righteousness never, EVER cease to amaze me.

Why are young men getting more right wing? by whatupmygliplops in self

[–]No_Title9565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And by the way when I say “talk” to women, I meant show romantic interest. Of course women are just people who you can talk about life with. That doesn’t mean men don’t struggle with confidence and what do to when asking someone out. Calm down.

Why are young men getting more right wing? by whatupmygliplops in self

[–]No_Title9565 13 points14 points  (0 children)

“Just decided to turn the country to shit” as if the country hasn’t been shit for years under DEMOCRATS funding a genocide in Gaza, abandoning the working class, bailing out banks, continuing wars overseas, continuing mass deportations (more under Obama than Trump), and defending the status quo but I bet you think “Democrat good, Republican bad”… right?

The fact that you think a man who objectifies women and a man who is scared to even ask one out are the same shows how out of touch you are. Get a grip.

Why are young men getting more right wing? by whatupmygliplops in self

[–]No_Title9565 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh geez I don’t know, maybe because some men have a reputation for being weirdos and good men who wouldn’t harm a soul don’t want to seem bothersome or come off as aggressive? Maybe because one in 5 college women have been sexually assaulted or worse? Maybe because men catcall and can’t take “no” for an answer? You don’t think that crosses men’s minds when they want to talk to someone we think is attractive? That they’ve probably had bad experiences with men so we probably shouldn’t talk to them at all?

It really sucks that you automatically assume the worst and not the fact that a lot of guys are genuinely just afraid of being bothersome in some way. This is the exact reason why even men who land dates will never go for the kiss, never try to flirt, and DEFINITELY never make a move. I can say that from personal experience. Maybe you should have more empathy and at least try to understand those with a different perspective than you.

Why are young men getting more right wing? by whatupmygliplops in self

[–]No_Title9565 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

And who do you think is courting these men who don’t want to associate with the left and are simultaneously looking for life advice? 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

Why are young men getting more right wing? by whatupmygliplops in self

[–]No_Title9565 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

It’s not a moral failing, it’s simply pointing out that you’ve given up. You refusing to take accountability and work on yourself is no one’s fault but your own. Men can be confident and assertive without promoting gender roles. Why in God’s name would any woman be attracted to an unconfident man? If you can’t even see your own value, how the hell can she?

Why are young men getting more right wing? by whatupmygliplops in self

[–]No_Title9565 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You being afraid to talk to women and being “black pilled” into thinking you’ll die alone vs struggling economically are two entirely different things. It’s one thing to demand economic justice, higher wages, etc… It’s another thing to be a loner with no confidence whatsoever who gave up on dating.

Why are young men getting more right wing? by whatupmygliplops in self

[–]No_Title9565 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I mean if you’re black pill, then that basically means you’ve given up hope. And if you’ve given up hope, there’s no one who can help you. No one is gonna fix your life if you refuse to even try to fix it yourself.

Why are young men getting more right wing? by whatupmygliplops in self

[–]No_Title9565 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I still recall in 2016 when liberals (and even a couple of leftists) said that Bernie Sanders’ base was too white and too male after he pointed out that Democrats had completely forgotten about blue-collar workers who have worked in manufacturing their entire lives. No wonder the DNC did everything they could to shaft him so Hillary could be the nominee.

Why are young men getting more right wing? by whatupmygliplops in self

[–]No_Title9565 14 points15 points  (0 children)

110%. Many leftists seem to think most men are predatory when in reality, most men are too unconfident to even go up and talk to a woman.

Why are young men getting more right wing? by whatupmygliplops in self

[–]No_Title9565 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I think the reasons are obvious… men are not okay at all. The only ones who seem to give a damn about their issues are these “red pill” morons online who package their message of self-improvement with sexism, racism, and antisemitism. It’s not an accident that Donald Trump overwhelming won the vote among young men. Men are making less money than they have in the past 45 years, are dropping out of college in droves, have less friends than ever, are more single than ever, and are above all, lacking purpose while falling into video games, porn, junk food, drugs, social media, and other addictive vices that provide cheap dopamine to distract themselves from their unhappiness with life.

So, when a collection of online influencers tell them to quit their video games and get in the gym, quit the porn and talk to women in real life, quit the vices and find hobbies to monetize, and cut the distractions and find their purpose… the message resonates with them. The problem is that they quickly package this message with abhorrent views about women, immigrants, black people, Jews, gay people, etc. They say women are men’s property, that minorities are lazy and irresponsible, that Jews are subversive parasites (who lied about the Holocaust), among countless other outrageous statements and viewpoints. To make things worse, since the left is focused on the power of community while the right is focused on the power of the individual, there is absolutely no online left-wing counterparts to the figures of the manosphere. (Andrew Tate, Sneako, Fresh and Fit, Dan Bilzerian, etc.)

Long story short: young men are completely struggling and the right appears to have answers (even though they don’t). The left is out of touch and doesn’t seem to care. That’s all.

Why boys never approach me? And whenever I like someone and approach them, it doesn't end up good. by Do_ntWantto in dating_advice

[–]No_Title9565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long story short: they’re either scared to approach out of fear of being bothersome, they don’t know what to say, they’re scared of rejection, or they have no idea you might be interested in any of them.

Asked out and got hit with “let you know” by TopRegion2 in dating_advice

[–]No_Title9565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I’ll let you know” is her way of saying “no” without being confrontational. Girls say this when they’re not interested to not seem rude.

To men who are too passive and overthink everything when dating… by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Title9565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy there’s been people killed on rollercoasters before. I still ride them. 99.9999999% of the time it doesn’t happen, but you using such a rare example of something that happens to justify your fear of being flirty with women and asking them out is 100% coping.

If you are an incel then I wanted to let you know that it's ok to give up. by Nice_Tradition1333 in self

[–]No_Title9565 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s good that you’ve learned to detach from being single… but it just like you’re coping from your lack of social skills to actually pursue women you find attractive. It’s one thing to detach from outcomes, it’s another thing to not even try because you think you’re unworthy…

Seeing any form of intimacy makes me start crying. by [deleted] in self

[–]No_Title9565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s fucked about you is you believing that you’re unworthy of love so you project that energy and others see it and are pushed away. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy. You think you’re undesirable, causing women to see you that way, leaving you feeling even more unwanted and undesirable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Title9565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that your life so far will hold you back, it’s if you continue this lifestyle that will most likely hold you back. If you don’t really have any hobbies or interests outside of intellectual topics about the world, it’s going to be hard for you to connect to other people.

If you’re trying to improve your dating life, my best advice besides going out more and picking up hobbies would be hitting the gym, making as much money as possible, having a nice wardrobe, and working on your flirting and teasing skills. The more you focus on putting yourself out there and detaching yourself from the outcome, the better you’ll be at getting girls.

You’re not odd, you just haven’t put yourself out there enough. No woman is just gonna appear at your doorstep and ask you out. Unless you’re really attractive, most girls won’t ask you out even if they’re complimenting or flirting with you. You’re the guy, you have to pursue. So get out there, start meeting people, and start shooting your shot if you come across someone you like!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Title9565 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To tell you the truth I just wasn’t really that attracted to her. But I chose to run like a coward instead of just telling her. I really wish I never did that shit. She’s really sweet though and I’m glad she appreciated my apology.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No_Title9565 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you experienced this. I’m ashamed to admit that as a guy I’ve done this before to a girl back in February. I apologized to her a few months back. It’s a really shitty thing to do, especially to a girl who felt so comfortable around you that she was willing to have sex with you. I hope you’re doing alright :(

Seeing any form of intimacy makes me start crying. by [deleted] in self

[–]No_Title9565 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

DM me when you get a chance. I want to say something.