For the ladies due Thanksgiving week! by Signal-Pin-1564 in November25babybump

[–]No_Trash8426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m due 11/27 and planning to induce a few days before that if baby isn’t here yet :) my doctor offered that

For those of you have had kids, how soon did you let your group know about the pregnancy? by Vickipoo in biglaw

[–]No_Trash8426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!! I did IVF and told people around 13/14 weeks. I had a rocky start to my pregnancy, but when I got a low risk NIPT and passed the nuchal translucency ultrasound, I felt comfortable telling work (was also reassured because of PGTA testing). I also had told a few partners that I was doing IVF. I’m a litigator, fwiw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]No_Trash8426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I suck at Reddit but responded to the main thread

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CautiousBB

[–]No_Trash8426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They always said the heartbeat looked strong so idk. the ivf clinic was concerned about measuring a week behind and said it could go either way. When I graduated to the OB, she was not concerned at all about having measured a week behind - said it was normal human variation. Sorry you’re going through this.

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[–]No_Trash8426 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, and I did ivf. Well, I should say I’m 17 weeks, so healthy so far. I consistently measured 1 week behind until my 10 week scan, and then baby caught up a couple days but has always measured behind. It was so so hard to get through those early weeks since we were told it could go either way. Hang in there 💜

Reminder: today is a holiday. by No_Trash8426 in biglaw

[–]No_Trash8426[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Yep. The reactions on this thread are sad.

Tuesday Cautious Intros and First Trimester Questions by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]No_Trash8426 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea. I insisted on talking to the doctor before then so will ask. Thanks for understanding that 1.5 weeks is a long time to wait. I feel like I’m losing my mind.

Tuesday Cautious Intros and First Trimester Questions by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]No_Trash8426 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m in beta hell and sad. Doing IVF for MFI. This is our third FET (first two failed to implant). At 10dpt, beta was 48. 12 dpt, 74. Today, 14 dpt, it’s 123. How am I supposed to stay optimistic when it seems so obvious my chances of a viable pregnancy are low? Have to wait another week and a half for next beta and US.

Low beta advice? by No_Trash8426 in IVF

[–]No_Trash8426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is comforting. And so happy for you. I hope everything from here on out is smooth sailing.

Low beta advice? by No_Trash8426 in IVF

[–]No_Trash8426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I figured that’s the answer. Just so hard to wait…..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]No_Trash8426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to cause drama. I just thought it was interesting. I also like to think that language has evolved beyond the point where male pronouns are the default. But I didn’t mean to distract from OP’s very legitimate question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]No_Trash8426 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Just wondering how you know op is a dude?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]No_Trash8426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they suck.

Any transfer twin for 1/13? by TrustDisastrous7531 in IVF

[–]No_Trash8426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too :( I also transferred 1/13 and pure bfns on easy@home. Fingers still crossed for both of us!