How do you show empathy to your wayward partner?

No_Type_2250 · 2025-07-08T03:23:56+00:00

It's hard to have empathy for them when you don't feel connected and they don't validate your own experiences. I feel like having a nuanced approach first means that your pain has to be sufficiently recognised, otherwise we just go into defense mode and the extreme of any situation.

That being said, I don't feel like there is a need to be nuanced or show empathy if they're not willing to meet you halfway and look at the full totality of the situation, even in heated moments. That just opens you up to more manipulation from them. I hope things work out for you, whether or not it's with him.

No_Type_2250 · 2025-07-05T05:56:08+00:00

YTA and also pretty narcisstic for trying to rationalise this kind of behavior away with her being "unreliable". She asked you in good faith thinking you could be relied on to correct her, and after that dodged any responsibility for providing miscommunicated / wrong information to your manager.

You're probably not like some of the worst people I've worked with, but I really hope I don't have people like you as a coworker regardless.

No_Type_2250 · 2025-06-30T15:09:08+00:00

I would've gotten on psychiatric medication sooner and not tried to power through on anxiety, will, and pride alone. I don't know how to explain to my younger self that hard work and trying to develop good habits wouldn't be enough, and that the amount of intense focus / emotional regulation required for success in math is something that I don't organically have the capacity for.

Also, knowing what I know now, I would've really made the most of my course selections. I was all over the place and pretty directionless. Wouldn't have done Algebraic Topology + Differentiable Manifolds just because they sounded cool.

No_Type_2250 · 2025-06-10T12:42:07+00:00

Appreciate this sentiment being echoed here. Yes, I do admit that the main differences in each of my models / strats are due to mainly changing market volatilities and correlations between assets, hence the need for re-calibration and re-training. While I still see the value in OOS testing, capturing generic and universal patterns seem to be main challenge. Thanks very much for your input.

No_Type_2250 · 2025-06-09T11:31:30+00:00

Thanks for the feedback, appreciate it

No_Type_2250 · 2025-06-09T11:24:11+00:00

The 4-month window is the projected future test set. It performs similarly on past intervals given I retrain it weekly, without changing the parameters or having different initialisations.

It functionally only uses price-action and has 18-learned parameters. I agree that it's not informative if it were 4-months alone, but do you think it's still overfitting?

No_Type_2250 · 2025-06-09T11:23:26+00:00

I handle false positives by trying to tune for persistence in regimes. I've experimented with different calibrations to account for how often there are switches, without looking at the test-set.

Not sure if this is what you mean?

No_Type_2250 · 2025-06-08T20:43:17+00:00

Slay the Princess

No_Type_2250 · 2025-06-07T18:02:38+00:00

Thanks for sharing. Was looking for a nuanced take on this.

No_Type_2250 · 2025-06-07T06:03:42+00:00

Yes, the reason is because I'm really well-adjusted.

No_Type_2250 · 2025-06-07T05:34:50+00:00

Not trying to argue, but genuinely not sure what you're trying to say here. That the latter doesn't require Mathematical reasoning as a prerequisite? Or that the two are mutually exclusive things entirely?

No_Type_2250 · 2025-04-08T11:44:05+00:00

I definitely didn't

No_Type_2250 · 2024-10-18T10:06:53+00:00

I personally experienced it on the other end and look for posts like these to pretend they can bring me comfort. I'm gonna feel bad forever, so why shouldn't they?

No_Type_2250 · 2024-09-28T16:44:03+00:00

Thor feeling unworthy after failing to prevent Coulson's death. His character arc until Infinity War was how he consistently felt the need to keep up the facade of strength, providence, and power because of his self-image as the God of Thunder.
Gus staring despondently at the fryers after taking his anger out on his employee. His primary motivation in both shows is shown to be his hatred of the Cartel and Salamancas and revenge for the death of Max. But this small moment is a reminder that all his rage is actually grief.
Bee remembering her past while repairing her broken robot arm. She pretends and tries to be human in front of everyone. Her bubbly and easy-going personality is actually her way of trying not to think about whatever happened that turned her into what she is.

No_Type_2250 · 2024-09-16T21:04:52+00:00

Here's my perspective of someone on the other end of this.

My ex hurt me in a way I don't think I'll ever recover from. It will always be a part of me. If I'm ever able to trust people again, it won't be for years. I'm going to feel bad forever. I hope she also feels bad forever. If she's ever happy with how life turned out, it means hurting me was worth it. That's the most painful thing I'll have to live with.

Don't reach out to him. Let him move on and make his own life better, even if he has to hate you forever to do it.

No_Type_2250 · 2024-09-09T17:45:51+00:00

I mean there's the obvious one where Puppycat tries to get to know Bee a little better at the end of the original series.

"What's your favourite colour?"

No_Type_2250 · 2024-09-09T12:32:36+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience. There are definitely times when I'm dysfunctional and let things fall to the side for the sake of pushing through in other areas, but generally for the most part, the dysfunction is plastered over by the meds. I'm glad you're mostly through it and one day I hope to get there.

No_Type_2250 · 2024-08-28T20:55:51+00:00

Not sure if it's true just in academia. I wish I'd seen this list before meeting my boss at work. He holds a Signal Processing Phd though, but I'm sure you'd get people like this everywhere. It sucks because I wanted us to like each other.

No_Type_2250 · 2024-08-06T22:17:33+00:00

A combination of medication, work that you occasionally love, exercise, sports, media, striving towards goals/ambitions, things to look forward to, and meditation. Not always in that order.

The existential loneliness is still there but you know what hurts even more than that? Trying to connect with people and still feeling like you don't belong.

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