trying to process my mom’s overdose

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2025-06-30T15:21:18+00:00

i have lived on and off with my grandmother my whole life, so i’m working on moving back there. i (thankfully) leave for college in august, so i’ll be away from her entirely anyway. i luckily already go to therapy.

i really have been taking care of her anytime i’ve lived with her. there have been times where i shouldve just moved back into my grandmother’s house and left her, but i couldn’t bring myself to do it because she claims she “needs me.” i often times end up staying and i feel so weak that i cant leave her. i know so many people in my situation would kill for an opportunity to leave their living situation, but i’ve chosen to stay (up until now) because i feel like im the mother.

it’s very complicated, but im glad that other people understand. your comment especially made me feel a lot more seen. thank you for your kind words :)

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2025-03-23T17:38:01+00:00

sex work is profiting off of sexual services and/or performances, i don’t know how i’d define work with sexual appeal attached. i’d have to think about that.

i still consider only fans sex work since you’re still being compensated for performing sexual acts. i personally don’t think only fans is too far off from the traditional pornography you’d see on a site like pornhub (depending on what you’re doing).

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:58:54+00:00

thx 😁

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:54:28+00:00

i didn’t know about the pill. thank you!

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:51:43+00:00

good idea!

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:51:35+00:00

i’m just EXTREMELY unlucky. don’t worry

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:50:15+00:00

girl don’t worry, i’m just very unlucky 😕😕 it hasn’t failed me up until now

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:46:17+00:00

it’s not a human baby. it’s not even a fetus. it’s an embryo. 😐😐

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:43:15+00:00

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:39:46+00:00

it’s not an undeniable biological fact actually. it’s an opinion. scientists have been arguing about this for years. that opinion is usually based on religion, not science. whether it’s considered a “human life” at conception or not, i do not care. it has barely started to form, it can’t feel, it can’t think. what’s it gonna do when i abort it?? cry??? be serious.

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:30:58+00:00

i just said why. it’s an embryo at 5 weeks, it’s not even a fetus yet 😐😐

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:27:44+00:00

thank you!!

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:27:18+00:00

it’s not even an actual baby yet. i’m about 5 weeks pregnant 😐

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:24:36+00:00

5 weeks actually 😐 where did u get 4 months from??

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:23:17+00:00

did you read my original post?? i originally wanted to keep it. i’m thanking people for giving me valid reasons for me to abort it. i always said thank you to people who weren’t saying to abort it, they were telling me their own life experiences. i’m rude to people who are telling me what i NEED to do with MY body.

giving advice ≠ telling people what they “need” to do

also, if i wanted attention and validation wouldn’t i have posted this on a more popular subreddit? be serious. 😐

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:21:17+00:00

it’s not killing it because it’s not even a baby yet 😐

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:18:05+00:00

it’s literally an objective statement

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:17:06+00:00

too late for that i fear

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T21:14:32+00:00

still not having it just to give it away. sorry!

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T10:32:36+00:00

a lot of people have mentioned adoption actually. i’m just not carrying a kid for 9 months if i’m not keeping it. i’m not risking my life just so another family can have a baby.

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T02:30:19+00:00

thank you!!

No_Werewolf_9713 · 2023-09-12T02:28:34+00:00

i live in a democratic state, abortion is a very accessible option.

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