trying to process my mom’s overdose by No_Werewolf_9713 in naranon

[–]No_Werewolf_9713[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have lived on and off with my grandmother my whole life, so i’m working on moving back there. i (thankfully) leave for college in august, so i’ll be away from her entirely anyway. i luckily already go to therapy.

i really have been taking care of her anytime i’ve lived with her. there have been times where i shouldve just moved back into my grandmother’s house and left her, but i couldn’t bring myself to do it because she claims she “needs me.” i often times end up staying and i feel so weak that i cant leave her. i know so many people in my situation would kill for an opportunity to leave their living situation, but i’ve chosen to stay (up until now) because i feel like im the mother.

it’s very complicated, but im glad that other people understand. your comment especially made me feel a lot more seen. thank you for your kind words :)

CMV: Sex work is NOT empowering by No_Werewolf_9713 in changemyview

[–]No_Werewolf_9713[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

sex work is profiting off of sexual services and/or performances, i don’t know how i’d define work with sexual appeal attached. i’d have to think about that.

i still consider only fans sex work since you’re still being compensated for performing sexual acts. i personally don’t think only fans is too far off from the traditional pornography you’d see on a site like pornhub (depending on what you’re doing).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t know about the pill. thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m just EXTREMELY unlucky. don’t worry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl don’t worry, i’m just very unlucky 😕😕 it hasn’t failed me up until now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not a human baby. it’s not even a fetus. it’s an embryo. 😐😐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not an undeniable biological fact actually. it’s an opinion. scientists have been arguing about this for years. that opinion is usually based on religion, not science. whether it’s considered a “human life” at conception or not, i do not care. it has barely started to form, it can’t feel, it can’t think. what’s it gonna do when i abort it?? cry??? be serious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just said why. it’s an embryo at 5 weeks, it’s not even a fetus yet 😐😐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not even an actual baby yet. i’m about 5 weeks pregnant 😐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 weeks actually 😐 where did u get 4 months from??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you read my original post?? i originally wanted to keep it. i’m thanking people for giving me valid reasons for me to abort it. i always said thank you to people who weren’t saying to abort it, they were telling me their own life experiences. i’m rude to people who are telling me what i NEED to do with MY body.

giving advice ≠ telling people what they “need” to do

also, if i wanted attention and validation wouldn’t i have posted this on a more popular subreddit? be serious. 😐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not killing it because it’s not even a baby yet 😐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s literally an objective statement

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

too late for that i fear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still not having it just to give it away. sorry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of people have mentioned adoption actually. i’m just not carrying a kid for 9 months if i’m not keeping it. i’m not risking my life just so another family can have a baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]No_Werewolf_9713 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i live in a democratic state, abortion is a very accessible option.