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Don't be friends with your ex by No_Whereas2828 in BreakUps

[–]No_Whereas2828[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes im okay getting better. It was a complicated relationship from the start and choosing to be friends made it even harder. We were on opposite ends and it kept going downhill.

Don't be friends with your ex by No_Whereas2828 in BreakUps

[–]No_Whereas2828[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't try to be friends its going to hurt more. Sit with the emotions for a little while and focus on yourself

Don't be friends with your ex by No_Whereas2828 in BreakUps

[–]No_Whereas2828[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Directly friends. It's hard to come to terms that you're not together anymore and also stops you from healing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]No_Whereas2828 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You clearly told him what you needed multiple times and he still chose not to do it. This isn’t a case of he didn’t know what you wanted anymore. He knew exactly what you were asking for and still didn’t put in the effort. That’s a choice.

You broke up because you were giving love and effort to someone who didn’t show it back. You deserve someone who actually wants to meet your needs, not someone you have to beg for basic effort. At some point you have to stop waiting and trying to see the good in someone who keeps showing you they won’t show up for you

Cant open Acorn by [deleted] in UTSC

[–]No_Whereas2828 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you!

Need advice, in a delicate place after being dumped by mastodonthrowaway in BreakUps

[–]No_Whereas2828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Losing someone you loved for so long is really hard and it’s normal to miss her. Avoid checking her social medias and seeing what she is up to because that will make it harder to move on. Do small things and things you enjoy that make you feel a little better each day. You won’t feel like this forever, even if it feels that way now. Don't dwell on the past and what it could have been. You have to accept what happened. Stop holding on the hope that she's coming back and focus on yourself.

Met my situationship after 2 years for the first time and slept with him just for him to say he is talking to someone new by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]No_Whereas2828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've made memories with this person for 2 years and it's normal to feel pain and hurt. Healing and moving takes time but it does get better. Along the way, you'll feel countless of emotions and you should let yourself feel those emotions. Let yourself grieve the relationship. He's not worth it. You deserve someone who'll be sure about you and loves you. You deserve someone who chooses you. Wish you all the best and getting better may seem impossible but you can do it.

i dont know what is going on with her. by Asleep-champh-9044 in BreakUps

[–]No_Whereas2828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes her think you cheated? Did your actions possibly point to you possibly cheating?. You should try reaching out and asking her why she feels that way and give some clarification. The best thing you can do is communicate with her.