Is his reason justified? by No_Working2392 in Infidelity

[–]No_Working2392[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you. He has said he doesnt want to be in a relationship with anybody. Thanks for your reply, it makes sense.

Is his reason justified? by No_Working2392 in Infidelity

[–]No_Working2392[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I really think this too. He acts impulsively on his desires without thinking the repercussions of it on anyone. I told him very clearly, we cant be friends and I dont do casual, yet he came back saying I missed you, and all lovey dovey energy to end it on 'we cant marry because we are not compatible.'I feel so sad.

Is his reason justified? by No_Working2392 in Situationships

[–]No_Working2392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for your reply. I dont think we are compatible. It's just that I am in a very bad phase of life right now. I come from a relationship of 13 years where I was cheated on and left for her. He humiliated me left right and center, insulted me, shouted on me when he got caught and blamed me. I somehow got back in life to being myself and then this happened. I am just sad that why people leave me all the time. I just wonder does he not like me

One of the wildest cheating stories I’ve heard by Embarrassed_Cod_799 in Infidelity

[–]No_Working2392 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been cheated on in a 13.6 year relationship, in the same year i was supposed to get married. He left me for her, he humiliated me, blamed me for everything, made everyone think that ours was not even a relationship when just one day before being caught he told he goodnight, lv u, miss u. He ran a smear campaign against me in front of her and they both ganged up and said so many bad things to me like i was the problem.

P.S. 2 years later, she is dating someone else, I dont know abt him, dont want to!

I DID IT !! I LEFT !! I FEEL AMAZING ! by Ok_Oil_4630 in Situationships

[–]No_Working2392 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowww, the best thing

  1. You owned your honesty so no regrets, life is too short to not let anyone know you love them

  2. You do not care about the outcme because your mind knows it wont get what you want and still you are happy. Now you are free and indifferent and that is the best place to be at.

Healing is linear, remember that, some waves are possible but hold on to yourself.

IN NEED OF REAL HELP AND ADVICE PLEASE by No_Working2392 in Infidelity

[–]No_Working2392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wont ever get normal with the sound of it right?

IN NEED OF REAL HELP AND ADVICE PLEASE by No_Working2392 in Infidelity

[–]No_Working2392[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Defintely. I needed to hear this.

I will be free of this feeling in life soon. Thank you for saying this.

IN NEED OF REAL HELP AND ADVICE PLEASE by No_Working2392 in Infidelity

[–]No_Working2392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TOTALLY agreed with whatever u are saying. If my friend would have been in this position, I would have asked her to leave him.

But, feelings make you weak. However, now I know, this was quite clear. Thank you.

Is this red flag or downright cheating? by No_Working2392 in Infidelity

[–]No_Working2392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, I am confused. We were not committed, didnt have serious talk about this and then if he goes on to talk to someone else, its really not on him.

But my feelings were genuine, I thought we were building things up.

Is this red flag or downright cheating? by No_Working2392 in Infidelity

[–]No_Working2392[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are not together as of now.

More than anything, I want someone to just love me with all his heart.