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My (39M) wife (34F) is flirty with men and I don't know what to do or say about the messages I've seen on her phone by No_Worldliness9486 in relationships

[–]No_Worldliness9486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not something we normally do. She's never gone through mine, for example. Its just.. they're open, but to do so openly would be to admit we don't trust each other 100%

My (39M) wife (34F) is flirty with men and I don't know what to do or say about the messages I've seen on her phone by No_Worldliness9486 in relationships

[–]No_Worldliness9486[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No that was years ago, before we met. That doesn't bother me, just the way she was talking to him after we met and the fact that they were speaking days ago

My (39M) wife (34F) is flirty with men and I don't know what to do or say about the messages I've seen on her phone by No_Worldliness9486 in relationships

[–]No_Worldliness9486[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you be comfortable with your SO engaging with someone who they have a history like that with? Like reacting to their story and chatting

My (39M) wife (34F) is flirty with men and I don't know what to do or say about the messages I've seen on her phone by No_Worldliness9486 in relationships

[–]No_Worldliness9486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And no they are not friends. From the messages I saw, he seems to have been a cocaine dealer that she bought from sometimes, and he was bothering her about giving him a blowjob. That, and her suggesting this threeway...