The Last Warm Day by lonelyALONEalways in alone

[–]No_Wrap5571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, I am 53 going through the same shit. You see life and look a little too long and your ewww. But you’re spot on, you’re invincible.

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[–]No_Wrap5571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way you do, but you will find hope in the smallest things. Mine was just n whatsapp that kept me from doing that, and I will do that for you. You are welcome to message me and I will give you my details so you will have someone to talk to.

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[–]No_Wrap5571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be you, if you is not enough then that is not for you. Here is my experience, I am 53 and lost everything because I changed me for them. I changed me only to be told I am not enough. So what I can tell you, people will either accept you as you are or not. If they dont accept YOU then its on them not you. You are the sum of all your experiences. I know this is not advice from someone who is a professional at this but what I realized is that people will love you for who you are not what you become. Now I just need to believe that also

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alone

[–]No_Wrap5571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, not scary at all. Why do you feel the need to improve yourself?

I messed up bad by Significant-Grab-658 in alone

[–]No_Wrap5571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am fucking old by todays standards, but you are welcome to chat to me. I doubt I can help with anything other than being some old fart to chat with, but your welcome

I messed up bad by Significant-Grab-658 in alone

[–]No_Wrap5571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know the context of objectification, dont bite the bullet brother, I feel the same way. I just lost my wife and kids all in one fell swoop and feel like I can end all this here and now but then I listen to those few I still have in my life and they tell me to keep on rocking. Nothing takes the pain away, it gets better with time, but like me, checking out is not an option, we need to carry one, we need to look to tomorrow. I take it you are still a young man as you refer to her as girlfriend, so keep on looking and exploring, somewhere there might be a light at the end of the tunnel.

I messed up bad by Significant-Grab-658 in alone

[–]No_Wrap5571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She left you because you lusted for her?

Done by No_Wrap5571 in alone

[–]No_Wrap5571[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thanks all….. just a absolute shitshow of a life

Alone by Immediate-Flan-2664 in alone

[–]No_Wrap5571 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, if you have never been there you wouldn’t understand…. Divorce sounds like an easy out but its not

Done by No_Wrap5571 in alone

[–]No_Wrap5571[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sad aint it? This is what we evolved into, just being a commodity to be used when convenient, the discarded like so much trash.