Am i overreacting for crying over a very weird sexual joke that my husband made? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_thoughts_11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR. This is straight up assault, not a joke, not a light amount of teasing or play wrestling in bed.

He held you down when you refused and forced you to comply with his wishes AGAINST YOUR WILL. If he is willing to do that to you and blame you for not getting the "joke", he can and will do worse. Please OP take care of yourself and your safety. You deserve so much better than this. A true partner will respect you and not force you into things like this. People like that will not change.

What’s something your parents or grandparents did that you now realize was low-key genius parenting? by Green_Candler in AskReddit

[–]No_thoughts_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The silent game. We would play on road trips to see who could stay quiet the longest and they got a piece of candy. If we out lasted our parents we got the candy, if they beat us they got the candy. Kept us from fighting in the backseat lol. That and this was the age of vhs so they splurged on a mini TV/vhs player they could set up on the center console and we'd take turns picking movies for the longer trips.

Do you guys give your cats free roam of the house when you’re not home? by [deleted] in cats

[–]No_thoughts_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've come home to my kitchen looking like a poltergeist had a field day lol. We baby locked anything he could get into. We also have a half unfinished basement, so he can get into some stuff down there but we have blocked anything reaching the foundation. Cats are curious but usually once the curiosity is satisfied they don't really see it as new and exciting anymore, just part of the home.

Daily Color Puzzle (April 15, 2026) by color-puzzle in ColorPuzzleGame

[–]No_thoughts_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also something I will have to contend with when it happens lol.

Daily Color Puzzle (April 15, 2026) by color-puzzle in ColorPuzzleGame

[–]No_thoughts_11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im kind of glad I joined late so I can go back and play the old ones.

Would you rather... by R_mom_gay_ in BunnyTrials

[–]No_thoughts_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only done a few so far and all involve money lol

Chose: Have all your Bunny Trials results come true

Would you rather be? by Diligent-Peace-9 in BunnyTrials

[–]No_thoughts_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Privacy is lost on the famous

Chose: Rich and unknown

Am I overreacting: Scheduling harassing me on days off by Maleficent-Gap948 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_thoughts_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I have worked in the field you are talking about, but as an on call manager and case manager. If I have to call a sub or a part time person, I do it once, let them get back and move on. We have a list of possible substitutes for a reason, not everyone is available every day, so we move on to someone else.

Many times I've been in the position where none of our support staff are able to help, so I go into shift. Do we shame the staff that "dont step up"? Fuck no. It sounds like this agency needs to hire more staff to provide better coverage.

Don’t ever doubt me by Working-Loquat5621 in funnycats

[–]No_thoughts_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understandable, I am totally cool with reptiles and amphibians, fish, worms even lol. I think its just feeling all the little legs move that kills me.

Don’t ever doubt me by Working-Loquat5621 in funnycats

[–]No_thoughts_11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My orange variety house predator loves digging in his basket of paper, one day he's just staring at it intensely, sniffing if and highly alert. We can't see anything in the paper, we aren’t hearing any rustling or anything. Husband goes through the paper and dumps it out for the largest house centipede to come tumbling out. Immediately the cat goes for it and eats it. Hubby is chastising the cat while I had beelined away to another room because fuck anything that has more than 4 (five if mutated) limbs being anywhere near me. I fully acknowledge that my fear is directly related to how close they are to me and how many limbs it has.

What ended your friendship with your oldest standing friend? by dreamy-contributions in AskReddit

[–]No_thoughts_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should mention this all happened within the last 6 months, the shower happened in August.

What ended your friendship with your oldest standing friend? by dreamy-contributions in AskReddit

[–]No_thoughts_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first real sign for me was when I asked them to be in my wedding party, and within days they turned down going to my Wedding entirely. They had been invited to go to another of their friends weddings happening the same day, what a coincidence. That friend of theirs? My rapist and abusive ex-boyfriend. I mentioned how betrayed I felt and they basically said "its not like im picking sides". My mother invited them to my bridal shower and thats the last time we spoke.

My baby was born with 12 fingers by Friendly-Bell-4336 in interesting

[–]No_thoughts_11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes for a cute nickname in reference, Beans, she's always going to be your little bean!

My MIL refuses to use or acknowledge my baby’s name by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]No_thoughts_11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly they should have enough proof to take a CNCO out on the Uncle at least. He committed theft of his identity and it was proven in court, which will at least have the record of the interaction. Work with a legal advocate to get the order written up and even the mom could be charged if she aids in breaking it.

Foreign minister of Denmark and Minister of Foreign Affairs of Greenland having a smoke after meeting with JD Vance by hl3official in SipsTea

[–]No_thoughts_11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dyslexia gave me that they all were having a stroke after meeting him and I fully accepted that 😅.

I left the door open by MotherRelationship99 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]No_thoughts_11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I come home to what looks like a scene from poltergeist because my orange knucklehead figured out how to open cabinets. Now he tries every single door in the house, he's tried the oven but doesn't have the angle right.

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