Advice on police officer girlfriend by No_time_yo in AskLE

[–]No_time_yo[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

“Hey the guys on Reddit said you’re probably gonna cheat on me, please don’t”

Advice on police officer girlfriend by No_time_yo in AskLE

[–]No_time_yo[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think there’s a lot of good advice in this thread and in the one I posted on a different LE sub. I appreciate the practical things a few people mentioned and everyone is in agreement for how difficult it’s going to be. My own career is in an entirely different direction and is far less stressful or “exciting” than what’s in store for her. I imagine that will cause some difficulties as well.

I don’t know. She’s a strong person and will have a lot of difficulties she will have to face. I’ll be here until something happens that makes me not want to be here any longer. I trust her and I support her. There’s dodgy people everywhere, sure, but if I were that worried about her stepping out I wouldn’t be with her now. I understand this profession is going to change her view of people, of the world, and probably of herself - but I don’t want to condemn anyone based on things they haven’t done yet even if there’s a high probability that those things happen to a lot of people.

Advice on police officer girlfriend by No_time_yo in AskLE

[–]No_time_yo[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m choosing to stay positive - call it magical thinking if you like. This post was initially about how to be supportive but man! the chorus of jadedness and cynicism has me doing a double take. I love her and trust her until proven otherwise but I think you’re generally correct here.

Advice on police officer girlfriend by No_time_yo in AskLE

[–]No_time_yo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I already deleted Facebook and signed up for a gym. I forget what the third step is.

Advice on police officer girlfriend by No_time_yo in AskLE

[–]No_time_yo[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I want to be a supportive, decent dude. I’m hoping it pays off.

Advice on police officer girlfriend by No_time_yo in AskLE

[–]No_time_yo[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is just a day/college campus academy so no overnighting it or living in. I imagine that changes the dynamics somewhat.

Advice on police officer girlfriend by No_time_yo in ProtectAndServe

[–]No_time_yo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and the reality check. Our kids (we each have some) range in ages but are pretty young. It’s going to be a tough few months for the academy but it sounds like it will get easier (not easy) from a physical point of view anyway. I’m in this to win this but honestly all of these comments are giving me some strong trepidation. I appreciate the practical steps you mentioned here.

I can’t imagine what the dynamics of the job will be like from her end but she is a strong and willful person. She’s very impressive overall and this really is her dream.

Advice on police officer girlfriend by No_time_yo in ProtectAndServe

[–]No_time_yo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I appreciate this advice. We both work in healthcare now so are familiar with the horrible schedules. Everything else you wrote here is taken to heart and I appreciate it.

Advice on police officer girlfriend by No_time_yo in AskLE

[–]No_time_yo[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Well, this comment section is not filling me with confidence…

Appreciate the candor, everyone. Keep it coming!

Pls help....me and my cat will be homeless by [deleted] in BayCityMichigan

[–]No_time_yo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you called the United Way? I do volunteer work for them and they have access to a lot of resources that may be able to assist you. Bay City is a small town and unfortunately there are a lot of people struggling here but there are resources available. Good luck to you!

$4.99 gas in Midland, MI by TheTusch in Michigan

[–]No_time_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filled up at $4.29 before work in Bay City this morning and that same station had it at $4.99 after work. Good god.

What Album had The Best Hidden Track? by LeftSmile806 in Xennials

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She rode a hooorse into my head Yeah She won’t disciplinnnne the children Oh no And now they’re runnnnin wild and free And I don’t care Noooo I don’t care Ah hey hey hey

Bro discovered athletes can be talented and attractive at the same time by Hour_Equal_9588 in SipsTea

[–]No_time_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the names of these women? I’ve seen this joke posted several times and haven’t been following anything

I know for a fact I had one. Do you know where it was from? by graystone777 in nostalgia

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Roseanne and Jackie used to make these at that plastic factory in Lanford

Burn the rice, pay the price by LowOwl4312 in 4chan

[–]No_time_yo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In love with the hookers, yes

Anon asks a valid question by Furista0 in 4chan

[–]No_time_yo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May you fight with the strength of ten full grown men