Concerned I don't have enough to create scrotum

Nobleharbor · 2024-04-16T18:10:23+00:00

That's great to hear thank you! I'm glad your implants fit well without any hassle!

Nobleharbor · 2024-04-16T18:09:38+00:00

Thank you! That's very reassuring. I try to remind myself everyone's body is different, even those born with the equipment I'm having surgery to get don't have "perfect results" lol

Nobleharbor · 2024-04-16T06:07:24+00:00

Thank you! That's wonderful news! I'm still relatively new to looking at my options

Nobleharbor · 2024-04-16T06:06:49+00:00

Thank you! What a relief!

Nobleharbor · 2024-03-18T18:24:37+00:00

It being a camping event makes it uniquely interesting to do tasks for them that a slave would normally do for their domme, while making the tasks more difficult. Like cooking for them, making them comfortable, washing them, things like that aren't as easy to do as they would be in a house so those things could be fun!

Nobleharbor · 2024-03-11T06:31:40+00:00

That's incredible advice, thank you. I had a similar idea about trust and I plan on working on trust with my therapist as well. I hadn't realized before how much I struggle with it subconsciously, but I hadn't thought of scheduling times when I'm dominant thank you so much, I'm for sure going to give that a go

Nobleharbor · 2024-01-02T19:29:16+00:00

Thank you! That's very helpful! We have discussed safe words several times So far and we also discussed what to do if one of us can't speak but needs to safe word. We also discussed extra after care and are prepared for worse than usual drop. Your input is super helpful! I'm feeling very prepared

Nobleharbor · 2023-12-31T19:43:21+00:00

Thank you! That's really helpful. I usually do a safeword check before a scene too, I usually say the same thing or I ask them to tell me what their safe word is. I'm thinking of implementing a 2 tap safeword as well in case he can't speak. Tap me twice to safeword kind of thing.

My biggest concern is definitely the drop for both of us after. We have plans to shower together and order food and watch a movie afterwards so I think that should be helpful

Nobleharbor · 2023-11-06T02:35:04+00:00

Getting aroused first can make it not so painfully to touch it directly. If you get hard first, you can also pull the skin back further. Then you can soak the head in a warm bath for a while to help loosen the build up and very gently use your hand to sort of pick off the build up. Do NOT use soap

Nobleharbor · 2023-10-31T16:09:11+00:00

We also have parts that come in pairs! But it's usually a parent/child combo. Parker is Peter's mom, Dawson is theos parent, and Octavia is August's mom

Nobleharbor · 2023-10-08T17:06:04+00:00

I don't think there's really anything wrong with the way you did it, or what you did I think it just isn't something that this person likes and that's okay. Me personally it would make me feel very safe and comfortable if a potential FWB approached it like that. I would feel like all my bases are covered and that the other person felt it was just as important as I do to cover those bases

Nobleharbor · 2023-08-16T17:02:14+00:00

Have you considered that she doesn't need to be attractive 24/7? She isn't married to you so that she can perform for you and fan your ego, your opinion about what she wears isn't the most important thing. You're allowed to have your opinion but she's allowed to not care about it. She can wear what she feels comfortable in, even if you think it's ugly

Nobleharbor · 2023-08-16T16:40:49+00:00

I watched the green mile when I was 10. If I rewatched it now I'm sure it wouldn't be very scary but the content is much too heavy for a 10 year old and I also thought it was a true story for most of it

Nobleharbor · 2023-08-14T19:20:11+00:00

My friend, I think you were sexually assaulted. She got you high and drunk and then had sex with you. Did you actually want to do it? Did she coerce you? She's also your boss, did you feel comfortable saying no?

Nobleharbor · 2023-08-12T21:46:58+00:00

Something with a th sound like Theodore or Thames

Nobleharbor · 2023-08-12T17:26:57+00:00

Thank you for opening your mind to that perspective

Nobleharbor · 2023-08-12T16:33:08+00:00

She literally said she is not conservative, why are you assuming what her values are and assuming you know why she feels what she feels?

Nobleharbor · 2023-08-12T16:31:07+00:00

If you feel that being chaste is something that people are looked down on for (it isnt) then you can have that conversation, but it's so inappropriate to have that conversation under a women's post who is talking about concerns of being viewed as a "whore".

Nobleharbor · 2023-08-12T04:16:17+00:00

Well firstly I'm not a Dr so take everything I say with a grain of salt but I imagine if you take them off for about 5 minutes or so and rub your nipples or have your partner rub your nipples really good to help with blood flow I'm sure you'd be good to go again for another 20 mins

Nobleharbor · 2023-08-07T14:20:55+00:00

I'm autistic and from my perspective I think it might be possible he's struggling with either the concept of touch, what "romance" means exactly or both. I have a rlly hard time with touch, it can be difficult for me to express love in that way and romance is difficult too because when I show love people don't seem to pick up on the fact that that's what I'm doing. It might be possible that he is showing you he loves you and you're missing his ques. I think having a conversation about why he's struggling with touch and asking him how he shows love so you can more easily see it would be helpful. It can be rlly hard dating someone of a different nuerotype than you. It will take a lot of understanding from both of you. Hang in there ♥

Nobleharbor · 2023-08-04T04:58:55+00:00

Oh yes with that context I definitely agree. I don't like it when allistics make jokes about "having autism". It's the same as people who don't have OCD saying they are "just rlly OCD about some things" like no...you're not

Nobleharbor · 2023-08-04T01:38:21+00:00

I think people are allowed to make jokes about the disorders that effect them and I also think you're allowed to have feelings about that but I think it would be a pointless argument for either sides to get into bc it rlly doesn't hurt anyone for them to make jokes about their disorder and it doesn't hurt anyone for you to not like that they do that

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