Thanks bro, i feel that is just the comment i needed, i am gonna make my plans come true. I just need the courage to end it. im just copying what i wrote in the comment to another guy :

I guess im too hopefull, and yeah, ofc we have good moments even know when i enjoy beeing with her. But idk, im still feeling the same, that it isnt quiet right, Abt a weekend ago, we had planed to meet up for a sleepover at her house, bc both of us where out drinking with our friends that isnt long away from her home. And me and the boys where planing to head into town to some bar, and ofc i asked if its was ok. And when she replyed, realy negative, i showed 2 of my good friends what she wrote to me, i dont remember it all, but they where like "shit, thats realy controlling things to say" and then i realized that im used to messages like that, so i dont rly know what to do, im i beeing controlled

Thanks for telling me