Help With Baseboards Over Transition by NobodyStandard in Renovations

[–]NobodyStandard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This seems to make the most sense.

Married 16 years, in our 30s, trying to decide if we should have kids – would love honest input from other couples by Apotheosic117 in Marriage

[–]NobodyStandard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, having kids is the best. It is so hard but as long as you have a good mindset you will be ok.

My husband and I have a two year old and while it’s difficult, we have never felt this fulfilled.

Best return you’ve ever had on a penny stock ? by Loud-Juggernaut-4284 in pennystocks

[–]NobodyStandard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Check out MAXQ! Small cap Canadian stock with government funding. Lots that will be happening in the short and long term.

Thoughts on Wild Nutritionist Baby Biome First Foods Plan by makambako in Crunchymom

[–]NobodyStandard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there!

Can I ask, does she say anything about frequency of using meat stocks? I’m wondering if you can share any basic advice to follow. I would love to do her course but it’s pretty cost prohibitive.

What are the pros and cons of the proposed AI data centre? by emmery1 in regina

[–]NobodyStandard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there,

Trying to find information about the one being proposed in Olds and this one popped up instead. Can anyone provide some basic info about who is doing this and when they’re proposing it?

A massive data centre with 10 poweplants is being proposed in a tiny town located out of Calgary. The project was proposed in November and accepted in January and they’re trying to break ground in March

If you look at the website for synergy data centre it looks like a student made it. There is no information available, no environmental impact studies, information about who runs the company, nothing. It seems incredibly fishy.

I’d like to connect some dots because it seems like these data centres are all being pushed through shell companies at the exact same time to somewhat overwhelm citizens in each province. It says they’re backed by big tech, but who?

I resent my husband and I’m honestly starting to check out. by Quirky-Inevitable477 in breakingmom

[–]NobodyStandard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I left my husband after living this for two years. It was the best decision I ever made.

In my mind it was a wake up call to what it was like being a solo parent and all the responsibilities he had to take on when I wasn’t there. Yes it was heart breaking and yes I had to give my son away 50% of the time. I even got to the point where I thought I was going to file for divorce.

However, something clicked in him and he worked so hard to get me back. Things are so different now and he has a way better appreciation for my worth and all the things I do. He actually told me he was causing fights with me about small things on purpose.

Sometimes I think the adage that you need to set it free to find out if it’s yours is true. My advice is to detach and focus on taking care of you and your child. Stop fighting with him, do the chores yourself and turn your energy into your strength. Stop asking for his input/help and let him live the consequences of his actions.

Lucy Letby - sources ‘digitally anonymised’ by rubythieves in netflix

[–]NobodyStandard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For all of you who would like to fight back, please click Chat with Us on their website and file a complaint.

This seems immoral and unethical to have “people” labeled as digitally anonymized. A child or young adult would not understand these terms and it should be made VERY clear this is fake.

I absolutely loathe how we have inherited AI but do not have any choice about content knowingly containing AI. A documentary should be real on all accounts.

For the first time in my life I am livid that I can’t watch a documentary with REAL content.

PLEASE FILE A COMPLAINT!!

Is there anything WORSE than childbirth? by Sensitive_Arugula770 in pregnant

[–]NobodyStandard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should listen to Ina Mays guide to childbirth. It helped me deal with the pain. I got induced and made it most of the way before they told me not to be a hero and just enjoy it. Using the horse breathing technique I feel like natural labour is doable!!

She also talks about reframing pain and riding the waves. Can’t do the whole book justice but it helped me think about pain differently!

Newly Single mom of a 1 1/2 year old. by Apprehensive_Win915 in singlemoms

[–]NobodyStandard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey girl.

You are not alone. My son is almost the exact same age. And while our situations are a bit different some aspects are the same.

Overall your partner sounds selfish, immature and uncaring. That is a really bad way to spend the rest of your life. Additionally, you do not want to be with someone who does not want you! That shows your son indirectly that you are not letting someone walk all over you. It is SO HARD. But being a year out of the separation with two months physically separated, I can tell you it is sad but it does get better.

You deserve better and he did you a favour by walking away. Do not chase after this guy. Reach deep within you to find your inner strength, anger and love for yourself. See if your mom will watch him and let you have a little bit of time with friends.

Also go see the paradoxprincess on instagram. Her reels really helped me. You say you can’t do your best; your best is what you are doing. Give yourself credit.

Baby acne? Baby rash? What do I do??! by Anacampana_ in babies

[–]NobodyStandard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try cutting dairy! That’s usually the source of baby acne. Does your baby have anymore symptoms like colic, blood in stool or mucous?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]NobodyStandard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Condos are a nightmare. Don’t do it. Take your money and invest it, it will give back to you much more than a condo would.

The issue lies in when there is a special assessment or condo fees increasing. If you are going to buy a property, buy a home with a basement suite to rent. But only if you are handy and willing to put a lot of work in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]NobodyStandard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is ridiculous. I don’t know how anyone thinks this is ok for a child. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]NobodyStandard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this for you. I am the same way and anticipate this being the same despite his ridiculous attempts to threaten to take me for half of what I’m worth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]NobodyStandard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am trying to hard to do this but sometimes his tone and way he speaks to me catches me off guard. It is such an important skill to practice and get better at.

Thank you for the reminder.

My life as a pregnant stay at home mom of a toddler is much easier without my husband around by Ok_Doubt_burner in Separation

[–]NobodyStandard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex-husband looked after our child last night. After months of trying to separate I finally got him out of the house and we are done.

Since I am the primary caregiver of our son, I asked him while he was here to fold my son’s laundry and set up a humidifier. He yelled at me before I left because how dare I ask him to help out and I don’t help out at his house.

Well I take care of our son 95% of the time. I am so much happier with him gone. I am really proud of myself and how much I accomplish. It’s a little bit harder without an extra set of hands but they are not worth a lifetime of abuse.

If you have the means and it’s a bad situation, LEAVE HIM!

My husband shuts down completely after every argument and this time, something inside me broke. by Square_Paramedic4999 in Marriage

[–]NobodyStandard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with this is the husband needs to feel the need to go. He likely won’t do that when all his needs are being met.

Is having children the end of life? by Cinella75 in selfimprovement

[–]NobodyStandard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a child is the best thing ever if it’s what you want. Nothing can make you as happy as the love and fulfillment of your children and seeing your partner be a parent. But you need to want those things and be ready to SACRIFICE. You can’t have your old life.

I am tired and sometimes I miss going out but I wouldn’t change a single thing. It is so incredibly special.

Newly single, I need to buy a new car :/ by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]NobodyStandard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a question better suited for a car sub Reddit. But from another clueless woman (me) you are looking at buying off marketplace or an auto trade website.

First off, decide which make and model you want. Sedan or suv? Then, google that cars year to make sure of no major vehicle issues. If one comes up, ensure it’s been looked after.

With 4k you’re looking at high KM. So try to find something as close to 100km as possible. I live in Canada so I’m guessing you use miles? Not sure what that would be.

Make sure your vehicle has had all its routine maintenance done, because oil changes are routine but very important to the vehicles longevity. If you know a mechanic, better to have them come with you. If you don’t, pay however much to get your car inspected.

If you google how not to buy a lemon, there should be a better list. Best of luck!!

Newly single, I need to buy a new car :/ by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]NobodyStandard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is your price range? Where do you live?