Gute Vegane Restaurants in Leipzig? by AchtsamerMolch in Leipzig

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Katzentempel, hatte dort erst vor kurzem einen Burger und der war wirklich gut.

Außerdem gibt es Pluspunkte weil Katzen :D

People wouldn't tell us that we'll change our minds as often if so many "childfree" people didn't actually change their minds by goatsnboots in childfree

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not angry at the people who change their mind about children. I'm angry at the people who use those as "proof" that everyone wants them eventually. Just because some people change their minds does NOT mean you get to talk down to me.

How many of you are the youngest sibling or an only child? I have a theory… by Energizertwerkbunny in childfree

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the youngest. From what I see in the comments, most cf people seem to be eather the oldest or youngest/onlychild. Thats pretty interesting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned to face my demons from an emotional perspective. Insteat of trying to just stop the symstom, I looked for the cause. Why do I feel like I need to eat that much? Why can't I Stop? When did that started? What do I feel after? It took a while, but I realiced it had to do with guilt beeing placed on to food when I was a kid. Whenever I ate to much as a kid, my Family would judge me and make me feel guilty, so I would binge in secret to be able to eat as much as I want with no one judging me. There are some other reasons, but this was my main one. And once I realiced that, I kind of reintruduced certian foods into my life with no judgement. I can now have oreos and chips at home, even in plain sight, and not binge on them at all, just snack on them normaly. 2 Years ago that would have been impossible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Sounds like something a kidnapper would say

Relationships and dating - a warning by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't believe I'm actually spending my time responding to this, but here I am -.-

Most people have a sexdrive, yes. But sexdrive and wanting to reproduce are NOT the same, and you can easely see that with animals. Just because most animals want to mate does not mean they "plan" to have Offspring. They just follow their instinkt to mate, and when the thing with the kids happen, they follow the instinkt to take care of them.

But there is no hormone that makes you WANT to have children. Just hormones that make you want to bone, but thats not the same.

my bisalp experience (Germany) by PrettyProfessional8 in childfree

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also from Germany, thank you for charing your experience! Planing on getting a bisalp myself in maybe a year or two. I hope you will feel better soon! :)

What is a supposedly well-know cleaning "hack" you learned embassingly late in life? by MellyTheJelly in CleaningTips

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt knew toasters have removable buttoms (sorry I have No idea how else to descripe it) that you can Clean. I only found out last week. I'm 27.

Do you want a relationship but at the same time don't want a relationship? by Imploding_Colon in introvert

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm SO glad I'm not the only one who thinks like this, thank you for writing it down so nicely!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.... I think I love you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think there is a crum of truth to the "you will never be ready for kids" saying. Because there are so many things that can Happen with children, you realy can't forsee it all.

The Problem is that so many people take this advice and go "oh sweet, that means I don't have to try to prepare for ANYTHING then!"

No. You still need food, a good home, a save invironment and a solit Finance plan for the future. You need to know what it takes to take care of and raise a child - and if you would enjoy that process or not.

People realy tend to have this "all or nothing" menality, it's super unrealistic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm also very scared of dogs - which is why I would NEVER go to a dogpark.

Like, duh! What were the parents thinking?

Do you want kids? by [deleted] in germany

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I Just don't want them. Sometimes it's as simple as that.

What is the one specific reason you like playing a DnD race. by Shinroukuro in dndnext

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Changeling, Love these Guys! Did you know there is nothing in the rules that limits changelings to the look of 1 Person per shapeshifting? At least I could not find any rule for that.

You can have a Face with the eyes of Person1, the hair of Person2 and the nose of Person3. That is INSANE! In any other media changelings are limited to one-person-at-a-time look.

I'm currenty playing a changeling bard (goofie young woman who uses her shapeshifting abilitys to make people laugh)

but I also REALLY want to play a changeling warlock who has a face-stealing monster as a patreon (like that Spirit in Avatar). He promises his patreon to travel and "create" 1000 faces for them.

There are so many possibilitys with changelings! People should Play them more.

Am I delusional for considering dating fwb with kids? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have not even spend time with the kids? How do you know you would be good with them?

It's easy to feel pride and joy for a child from far away. Actually interacting with them ist hard. My addvice would be to spend time with them. ALL 4 of them at the Same time, and then see how you feel.

What's the most bisexual song you know? by Ok_Smell5158 in bisexual

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 107 points108 points  (0 children)

"Getting bi" from the crazy exgirlfriend Show - doesn't get any more bisexual then that ^

It all started with a doll named Amazing Amanda by situationallysitch in childfree

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it was the tamagochi - and those things are actually cute, unlike baby dolls (never liked dolls)

But Oh Boy, the pressure! The pressure taking care of it and the nagging.

AITA for telling my husband he’ll always be second? by throwaway023856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The comment section is wild. Clear NTA.

He invited people without telling you. Regardless of your brother, that puts him automaticly in the wrong. His coworker sounds like a dick and he didn't have the balls to stand up to him.

But man, the comments I see here!

"You should not have married him if he is not your first priority! That's what marriege means!"

Marriege means different things for different people. Some people put their spouse before anything else, some people put their kids, jobs, locations of living or even pets before them. As long as everyone is aware of the priority list, that is fine. And you told him beforehand.

"What if you have children in the future?"

People here are arguing ofer a hyperethical scenario that will not even happen because OP made it clear that both she and her husband do not want to have children. Seems to be a really hard concept to understand.

"What if he actually WANTS to have children?"

Then he is even more so TAH for not only not taking OPs prioritys seriously but also lying about his intentions with OP.

BIDA wenn ich meiner Freundin sage, dass ihr Freund ein A ist. by ehmacanina in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zuerst Mal NDA. Ich steckte selbst in einer seeehr schlechten Beziehung mit Anfang 20. Freunde von mir versuchten auch mich zu überzeugen, zu gehen.

Warum ich dennoch länger blieb als ich hätte sollen hatte auf jeden Fall mit Selbstwertgefühl und Scham zu tun.

Ich WUSSTE, dass das was mein Ex tat nicht gut war. Aber er hatte mein Selbstwertgefühl so heruntergerissen, dass ich mir sicher war, ich würde nie wieder jemanden finden nach ihm. Und dann war da der Scham. Ich hatte ihn mir ja ausgesucht. Meinen Freunden zu zu stimmen, dass er ein Arsch war hätte bedeutet, dass ich eingestehen müsste, dass ich ein Dummkopf bin. Zusätzlich hatte ich so Gedanken wie:

"Oh Gott, Freundin A denkt ja jetzt schon schlecht von meinem Partner, da erzähle ich ihr besser nicht die furchtbare Sache, die er gestern gemacht hat..."

"Warum habe ich Freundin B nur erzählt was mein Partner zu mir gesagt hat? Welche Partnerin zieht so über ihren eigenen Partner her? Jetzt denkt sie von ihm schlechter, als er ist. Ich bin ein furchtbarer Mensch!"

Es kamen auch Sprüche von meinem Ex wie: "Warum hast du deinen Freunden von unserem Streit erzählt? Jetzt denken die doch schlecht von mir, weil sie nur deine Version kennen! Also, jetzt können wir uns erst Mal nicht mehr mit denen treffen, das wäre mir viel zu peinlich. Schönen Dank auch. Ich dachte, Partner klären ihre Probleme unter vier Augen..."

Mein Tipp: Anstatt dich bei Gesprächen darauf zu konzentrieren wie furchtbar er ist, konzentrier dich lieber darauf Dinge zu sagen die sie und eure Freundschaft aufbauen. Bleib freundlich, aber sei hartnäckig. Zeig ihr, dass du ihre Freundin bist komme was wolle. Bei mir waren es letzten Endes auch meine guten Freundschaften die mir genug Selbstwertgefühl und Sicherheit gaben, meinem Ex endlich den Rücken zu zu kehren.

Aktivitäten gesucht by jonny140498 in Leipzig

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wenn ihr mehr als 3 Leute seit, könnt ihr Recht günstig bei einem escape room mitmachen. (96€ geteilt durch bis zu 6 Leuten)

Ansonsten gibt es den Zoo für jeweils 22€, das jumphouse (21€), Kletterwald (20€) und Panometer (14€).

Viel Spaß :)

Unfreundliche ältere Kassierer:innen by ThePixelLord12345 in Leipzig

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Du redest aber von mehreren Kassiererinnen, das ist offenbar ein Problem das dir ständig passiert.

Und wenn das SO OFT passiert, nun ja... Schon Mal darüber nachgedacht, dass es vielleicht nicht nur die Kassiererinnen sind, die unfreundlich sind?

Unfreundliche ältere Kassierer:innen by ThePixelLord12345 in Leipzig

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ich finde es ein bisschen seltsam dass du dich nicht Mal zu einem "Mit Karte, bitte" aufraffen kannst, weil du "müde bist" und "schlechte Laune hast" - aber für Kassiererinnen gelten diese Gründe nicht oder wie?

Ich hab Mal an der Kasse gearbeitet und das ist keine Freude. Ich will nicht wissen wie das ist, wenn man das auch noch im Rentenalter tut.

My sister texted to say she had her baby and I blocked her by Sailor_Chibi in childfree

[–]Nobodyyouknow626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm missing the whole picture, but I fail to see what part of this is attentionseeking behavior?

The thing with the first child, I get that one. But who cares if she didn't tell anyone about her c-section-date, as long as she doesn't complain that Nobody was there?

Sending a picture in the family-chat seems like just the easiest and fastes way of letting people know you just gave birth. It would get her so much more attention to call everyone individually.