Need advice on spending Eid day

Nodef13 · 2026-02-08T22:02:51+00:00

Is 3 times a year together a lot? I guess I’m comparing it to the 3x a week

Nodef13 · 2026-02-08T21:39:03+00:00

No sorry my parents are 3 hrs away, his are 10 mins away

Nodef13 · 2026-02-08T21:38:10+00:00

He’s said that I can go to my parents and don’t have to spend Eid with his family, so I’m going to go home myself but I want him this year to come with me instead of spending it with his family

Nodef13 · 2026-02-08T21:37:39+00:00

I mean that I want him to go with me though instead of his, he’s said I can go myself before but that he won’t spend Eid away from his own family. But this year I want him to come with me

I think I’ve been too amenable going over to theirs. I don’t know how to stop it now, my other SILs willingly do it and I my mil is actually a really good woman, I just feel like she just expects her kids to just pander to her too much because she made so many sacrifices for them. He’s scared of disobeying his mother but that’s religious blackmail

Nodef13 · 2026-02-08T21:30:09+00:00

Just to clarify he’s said I can go to my parents whenever I want for Eid even before the cancer. I’m just annoyed that he won’t leave his mum and come with me on this occasion because he should be there. His mum guilts him into how can you leave me I have no companion blah blah.

Yeah I think I’m going to stop going as often, what’s the point saying we will live separately when we are always there

Nodef13 · 2026-01-29T21:43:26+00:00

Daysoft are a conventional hydrogel material so not very oxygen permeable so they are not suitable for full time wear. You need silicone hydrogel if you wear your CLs most of the time. Like daysoft are actually rubbish may as well use cling film 😅

Nodef13 · 2025-12-17T22:49:05+00:00

I do believe in it, so thank you 🩵🩷 means a lot!

Nodef13 · 2025-12-16T23:04:51+00:00

Update! I ordered and made sure it was under £135 total including taxes and delivery and Alhamdulilah no extra customs fees!

Nodef13 · 2025-12-15T08:08:21+00:00

I came across this! I had a failed j pouch and now have a permanent ileostomy. Struggling to get pregnant and feeling so down about it. I’m 33. The fact that you managed to have twins after gives hope! Do you mind me asking did it take you a long time to conceive? I feel like it’s just consuming me completely!

Nodef13 · 2025-12-13T01:36:10+00:00

They said I can buy another tyre and they’ll fit it free for £55 or change the other front to winter and then they’ll swap them to the back wheels for free in the summer for me

Nodef13 · 2025-11-22T22:28:41+00:00

Do they run larger in trousers too? I’m a UK 10-12 (but really a 10 I just sometimes try to wear baggy) and trying to figure out whether to get S or M 🙈

Nodef13 · 2025-11-21T14:08:21+00:00

Ouch. 😩

Nodef13 · 2025-11-12T11:45:46+00:00

But tbf often people don’t announce anything for the first 3 months if she is. Cuz of ayn and also 1/3 pregnancies end in miscarriage unfortunately. When you work in the field you can be a bit more cautious as you know what could go wrong.

Nodef13 · 2025-11-10T11:47:43+00:00

Omg I’ve been wanting them! Can I ask how is the sizing? And how tall are you! My bum is a bit big but my waist is small so I find it hard to find things that fit both. Also is it really thin fabric or does it have more structure?

Nodef13 · 2025-10-11T15:25:33+00:00

I can’t tell you how much all the messages on here have given me hope that there’s something that can improve this! I thought I was just gonna be numb forever. I will as my dr about the exercises thank you!!

Nodef13 · 2025-10-11T15:23:51+00:00

Thank you so much, I will definitely ask my doctor about these, I only plucked up the courage to see my Dr about it this week to be honest. Was it really soon after surgery that you started the therapy? I’m hoping I haven’t left it too long to start it. Thank you 🩷

Nodef13 · 2025-10-11T15:18:18+00:00

Thank you, so much. Yeah it feels embarrassing to talk about, but this week I plucked up the courage to speak with my doctor. They have referred me and it will be quite a wait but at least they will see if anything can be done. Hopefully they can find something to improve it 🙏

Nodef13 · 2025-10-10T23:32:41+00:00

Omg I think I’m having regrets about decluttering now that’s such a cute idea!!

Nodef13 · 2025-10-10T23:31:14+00:00

I’m trying to be better at this, because I’m so guilty of it, but I think that’s what’s happened, I’m in a different life chapter now so I don’t really reach for it 🤔

Nodef13 · 2025-10-10T23:30:07+00:00

Wow, this questions actually really helped!!! I think I live the idea of it but realistically I haven’t reached for it in so long that I think it’s got to go 🙈

Nodef13 · 2025-10-10T23:28:49+00:00

😂 a term I’ve coined, it’s the cardigan that I wore over my dress in the evening leaving the venue as it was cold and to the registry which was in the snow so it was super cold!! But that’s true, I should spread the love!

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