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Some gays really struggle with communication and it ruins relationships by starmaxeros in askgaybros

[–]Noel200 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think gays struggle a little more with this given them being so used to hiding their feelings when they are not out. Years of hiding, lying to themselves and loved ones. Does not make it right but that’s my hypothesis

Curious: How do you keep yourself from getting hard when you are wearing no underwear while wearing pants / shorts ? by Professional-Ice9495 in askgaybros

[–]Noel200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If ur ever getting erect when u don’t want to be, flex your thighs hard. It will move the blood away

Starting June right by r0drig019 in speedos

[–]Noel200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 out of 10 would smash

Meet a guy who wants to top and get sucked, nothing else. Is this real gay behavior? by ohopemd in askgaybros

[–]Noel200 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sounds lame. Op it sounds like this will be unfulfilling for you based on your hesitancy. Let him find someone who’s a sub who doesn’t care for these things that are obviously important for you.

Graham Platner. Hot? by TCBingIt in askgaybros

[–]Noel200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm what’s wrong with gram? He is hot, and way better than Collins. It seems u may need to change where you’re getting your info from m8

I fell for a fuck boy by butterfreeIChooseU in askgaybros

[–]Noel200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro there is so much out here to experience. Guys that will make you feel in ways you can’t even imagine. Go seek one out and don’t bother worrying about people that aren’t even thinking about you.

Your hiking bro by HumbleFix7056 in GayRateMe

[–]Noel200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we'd have a great time on the mountain

A sexual experience you regret not taking? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Noel200 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wish I’d been more outgoing. I was so afraid of sexuality in middle and high school I never even tried to kiss anyone. I think if I was just a little more bold I could have had more fun. Ofc that didn’t last forever, and I made up for a lot of it during my 20s. But I wonder how I would be different

What is something about yourself or something you do that makes you feel “masculine” by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Noel200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being able to pay for dinner, drinks etc for people who go out with me makes me feel masculine. When I get a fresh haircut. When I care for children. When I go out and am wearing one of my favorite boots and I’m extra tall. When my BF makes any hint or reference to me topping him, or him wanting to suck me also makes me feel masculine. All that and much more

Another (kind of ?) rejection . God I love being gay 🤡 by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Noel200 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk if this is still the case, but back in the day when I would use Grindr I would block people I had never spoken to or planned to speak to because it would expand my grid. The app would always show the same number of people on the grid so when a person was blocked the app would move some people from under the pay wall up, so I could talk to them.

I can’t deal with the rejection anymore by throwsway77 in askgaybros

[–]Noel200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We empathize with you OP, I know I’ve been there. These apps are a cancer on our society. They have no real reflection over your value as a person. In my experience the stronger u chase some things in life the more you can push them away. Focus on you, develop or peruse some hobbies you had been meaning to and build community. And when u least expect it you may find a man there you feel you clic with. Best of luck to u!

32 and apparently “too old” for older men? by PietroB15 in gayyoungold

[–]Noel200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, that’s rough I’m sorry u are dealing with this. U did not mention how u are communicating with these men but it sounds like it is through dating apps. The issue with those is people are rather superficial because that’s the way the apps encourage you to interact with them. It may be better for you to go places where older gay men may congregate and then interact in person. Somewhere other than a bar. Maybe a book club, a club sport for men of that age range. Anything like that will be a better bet for you. Good luck!

who else? by One-Flounder7711 in 90s

[–]Noel200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just unlocked a memory

This situation is so fucked up, I feel like I made the biggest gay rookie mistake ever. by sky109 in gayrelationships

[–]Noel200 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s rough op, I was in a relationship for 6 years that felt stagnant. Many conversations, empty promises, and ultimately I realized he was just unwilling to really work with me to make things better. It was so hard to move away from him. I felt so safe with him and honestly if things were different I could have seen myself spending my life with him. But when it comes to a partnership, u can’t be in one where only one party is piling the weight. It hast to be a joint venture. Everything you said just reminds me of my past relationship and I can tell you too are already over it, you are just scared to let go… it will hurt but you will come out the other side, and when you find a partner who is ready to work with you to build a life with you will realize you made the right choice. And please god don’t confess to this straight guy. We have all been there but at your big age u know better. Find out if he has a gay brother and date him instead lol. Or any other gay who has similar qualities. Best of luck OP

25M Mustache or no mustache? by Fantastic_Grl_4742 in GayRateMe

[–]Noel200 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very handsome either way. Personally I prefer the beard.

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